Might Loose my Baby. :(

[Lizzy]

So i'm sure a few of you must know i'm pregnant after two years of trying. And now i might loose my baby.
The Doctor said the baby looks like it may have attached to my fallopian tube and that will kill the baby and me if i don't get it removed (Which will kill it). there's a slim chance it will move to where it's supposed to but if it doesn't do this in the next two days i'm going to loose my baby.  :'(

I really need to comforting here... and some advice as to how to tell my parents. My mate already knows and i can tell he's devastated but he's putting on a brave face for me.

I guess really it's just that i'm worried that to them it will be like an abortion.... because that's kind of what it is but i don't want to die....

[Puncia]

Oh sweetest dearest, I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard it must be for both of you...

I can't think of anything comforting other than that you do have people around to support you.
I hope it works out though, I truthfully do.

[Lizzy]

Oh sweetest dearest, I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard it must be for both of you...

I can't think of anything comforting other than that you do have people around to support you.
I hope it works out though, I truthfully do.

Thanks you've always been really sweet to me. *hugs*

[BlueEyes]

Although I don't know you, and really don't know what to say exactly..all I can tell you is that you will survive this. You have your mate and your family who, I am sure, love you unconditionally.. And I wish you and your loved ones the best of luck.

[Lizzy]

Although I don't know you, and really don't know what to say exactly..all I can tell you is that you will survive this. You have your mate and your family who, I am sure, love you unconditionally.. And I wish you and your loved ones the best of luck.

Thanks. I think it's something a lot of people don't know what to say much about... i just... it's been such a hard year and getting pregnant was such a wonderful thing... i don't really know how to put it into words.

[Sareen]

Im so sorry to hear this *hugs*
Im sure everyone who reads whats going on will pray for the best for you and your mate.
You can also count on everyone here on the forums to be here for you.
I hope everything turns out the way you hope it will.

[Goblin Cat 😸]

Aw, I'm so sorry. In all honesty, I hope the baby moves to where it's supposed to, I really do. When it comes to telling your parents, the best thing you can do is... Well, tell them. I mean, it's a grim subject and it will be hard, but there's not really anything you can do at this point and there's no use in sugar coating things. It's not as if you willed the child to attach itself there or can help it for that matter. Sometimes things, as unfortunate as it is, happen that way, and it isn't fair.

If the baby does have to be removed, you really shouldn't feel like it's your fault. You have to take your health into consideration, too. I believe your parents will understand that. It's not as if you're deciding you don't want the baby or are getting it removed for an irresponsible reason. You also have to look at the fact that if it's not done, you both lose your life. What effect would that have on your family? It's better to save one than lose both. You can't help that this happened, it's not your fault.

I really wish you the best of luck. :c
I hope things work out for the best, I'm sure we all do.

[Lizzy]

Thanks for all your kind words guys. Its nice to know that all of you care.

[Ares the Ram]

*hugs Lizzy* It'll pull through. I believe in it and you.

[Kaprika]

..i am so sorry lizzy, id be devastated if i was told this news...really, my heart goes out to you.
i really hope that the baby makes it..

as for your parents...its not like they can blame you, so just tell them from your heart that your torn to tell them this...but there is some bad news about the baby you need to tell them

[Lizzy]

@KaprikaAZ: Thanks. that's good advice.
@Macid: *hug*

[WhiteTiger89]

My heart truly goes out to you Lizzy. It truly does. I think Mortis.Reptus has the best advice here, and I pray that everything goes well for you and you avoid the worst case scenario.

[Blaiiine]

Oh, I'm so so sorry to hear about that, Lizzy.  :'( . Though I can hardly relate, the only hardest thing I've faced was my brother dying, I can say that while this may seem like a dark time now, there will always be a light. No matter how dim it may be, just follow it.

And as for your parents, I really have no advice, just go with your own feeling if that seems right. My prayers go out to you.

[Lizzy]

Oh, I'm so so sorry to hear about that, Lizzy.  :'( . Though I can hardly relate, the only hardest thing I've faced was my brother dying, I can say that while this may seem like a dark time now, there will always be a light. No matter how dim it may be, just follow it.

And as for your parents, I really have no advice, just go with your own feeling if that seems right. My prayers go out to you.

Thanks Cyril. We'll see in the morning how things have turned out.

Post Merge: May 02, 2011, 07:25:48 PMUpdate: It didn't shift down and the doctor is going to remove it is in 24 hours so it has one more day to magically move, but pretty much i've lost my baby. :'(

[Blaiiine]

I'm sorry to hear that, Lizzy. I really can't imagine what it must feel like. But my heart goes out to you.