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Author Topic: Might Loose my Baby. :(  (Read 3165 times)

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #30 on: May 15, 2011, 11:55:46 PM »
May I ask what happened? I don't see how they're in the position of not taking it "well"*, it's not anybody's fault.

* of course, it's awful news and I wouldn't count being devastated.

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #31 on: May 16, 2011, 12:37:48 AM »
I just wanted to thank everybody who was so sweet to me about all of this. All of you were wonderful people and were truly kind and caring.

The baby and the Fallopian tube it was in have both been removed. I'm still fairly loopy from the drugs and stuff but i felt like i really aught to thank all of you for being so very good to Me and Eli over the last few days. Thanks you very much. <3

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you're very brave, sorry for your loss :(
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #32 on: May 16, 2011, 11:18:27 PM »
Being devistated is really the least of it. They um - they said some really terribule things about me and blamed it on my imoral life style and told me god was punishing me. So... yeah... that and they said i should have tried harder to save the baby. it's  just a mess.

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #33 on: May 16, 2011, 11:28:33 PM »
im sorry. "imoral life" the hell does that mean?
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #34 on: May 16, 2011, 11:30:48 PM »
I think it means her parents dont approve of her life. Its not your fault Lizzy. Dont ever believe that it is.

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #35 on: May 16, 2011, 11:33:50 PM »
just tell them that your choices have no influence on them and to not say that about you. they are misunderstanding people, who use their faith as a mask for their ignorance, mostly for how much of a nice person you are.
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #36 on: May 16, 2011, 11:44:30 PM »
i'm sorry hun.......*hugs*
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #37 on: May 17, 2011, 01:40:16 AM »
How could they even say such a thing, God is punishing you by this? !! That is cruel, even in a Christian family, how dare they. Real Christian families would feel sad about the baby's loss, so they are not true in their faith, do not listen to them hun. *huggles*
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #38 on: May 17, 2011, 04:30:20 AM »
i vinny raccoon would love to give your parents a piece of ma mind!
my advice is move out, get a job and live yo life da way you want too! be who you want to be and don't beat yo self over yo loss! learning from yo losses will only make yo a better stronger  woman! and for your sake its not your fault! live happy and be safe! THAT's my blessing from me to you!

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #39 on: May 17, 2011, 08:04:51 PM »
"Tried harder to save it." Ha! This is ludicrous. What could you have done differently? Repented and become a nun, praying every day for you both to pull it through? I'm not making fun of a religion here, but it's obvious that there was nothing that could have changed the outcome. Sadly.
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #40 on: May 18, 2011, 12:17:33 AM »
Being devistated is really the least of it. They um - they said some really terribule things about me and blamed it on my imoral life style and told me god was punishing me. So... yeah... that and they said i should have tried harder to save the baby. it's  just a mess.

I'm so sorry that you your parents decided to drop that on you. And out of respect for you, I won't spew the massive buildup of venom I normally would at your parents. If the way you act on these forums is the way you are IRL, then I can't think of any reason why God would punish you, especially in this form.
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #41 on: May 20, 2011, 09:23:49 PM »
im sorry. "imoral life" the hell does that mean?

My parent's don't recognize My marriage to Eli because it wasn't done in the church or by a religious figure.

I think it means her parents dont approve of her life. Its not your fault Lizzy. Dont ever believe that it is.

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How could they even say such a thing, God is punishing you by this? !! That is cruel, even in a Christian family, how dare they. Real Christian families would feel sad about the baby's loss, so they are not true in their faith, do not listen to them hun. *huggles*
"Tried harder to save it." Ha! This is ludicrous. What could you have done differently? Repented and become a nun, praying every day for you both to pull it through? I'm not making fun of a religion here, but it's obvious that there was nothing that could have changed the outcome. Sadly.
This is ludicrous.

My parents are difficult but deep down inside i know they love me. they are just, close minded would be a good word for it.
i vinny raccoon would love to give your parents a piece of ma mind!
my advice is move out, get a job and live yo life da way you want too! be who you want to be and don't beat yo self over yo loss! learning from yo losses will only make yo a better stronger  woman! and for your sake its not your fault! live happy and be safe! THAT's my blessing from me to you!

hope dat helped

Thanks Vinny i already live in another city with my husband but the advice is still appreciated.

I'm so sorry that you your parents decided to drop that on you. And out of respect for you, I won't spew the massive buildup of venom I normally would at your parents. If the way you act on these forums is the way you are IRL, then I can't think of any reason why God would punish you, especially in this form.

Thank you.

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #42 on: May 21, 2011, 12:54:04 AM »
im sorry. "imoral life" the hell does that mean?

My parent's don't recognize My marriage to Eli because it wasn't done in the church or by a religious figure.

I am assuming one of you is along the lines of "Aetheist"?
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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #43 on: May 21, 2011, 09:26:30 PM »
I am assuming one of you is along the lines of "Aetheist"?

ah.. no not really -  its complicated.

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Re: Might Loose my Baby. :(
« Reply #44 on: May 23, 2011, 01:51:09 AM »
ah, okay. well, i dont want to pry, so I wont ask.
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