Rants: Everyday Venting

[Alessia Starfurr]

In school I was never able to dye my hair blue or red, only "natural" colors.
What is so wrong with unnatural dyes? Whenever the school admins saw someone break the dress code, they justified it with "it's a distraction".


It is not my job to keep people on task. Dyed hair doesn't disrupt class, it's not illegal, and it's my hair so I can do whatever I want with it.


The same thing can be applied to actual dress. Obviously I wouldn't wear a shirt that exposes everything on my chest, but what's wrong with leggings? Unless whenever you bend down, the leggings thin and show your underwear, they're fine. Denim leggings, or "jeggings" are still leggings, so why can't I wear the fabric ones? Again, it's not my job to keep guys from looking at, like, my shoulder. Yoga pants never hurt anyone.


I understand that my school is trying to prepare us for the professional world, but not everyone is going into a white-collar job. I'm going to work at a zoo or a sanctuary, so I just need to wear something that's light, comfortable and covering. Some people plan to work from home, like my boyfriend, and of course you're not going to wear a polo and khakis on the battlefield.

True even the new landwarrior system  is comfortable sure you may have to wear a camo outfit and armor but i bet their a little more comfortable than some other clothing oh and get this WOMEN WEAR THE SAME OUTFIT! :OOOOOO I swear schools are such... umm.. elitist? can't eve make your own 3d map of your school in a game without gettign suspended despite the fact that making an accurate map of such building ALONe is an achivment in itself, sigh how the world has changed, I'll tell you what's distracting.... the teachers telling the one person who broke the dress code to leave the classroom i didn't notice it till then thanks for showing me it NOW i'm distracted, where did that person go , Why? oh by the way thanks again for distracting ME

[The Past]

I spent four hours writing a big post, accidentally clicked outside the textbox and hit backspace, went back a page and lost everything.

WELL THEN.

[Alessia Starfurr]

I spent four hours writing a big post, accidentally clicked outside the textbox and hit backspace, went back a page and lost everything.

WELL THEN.

  Waaa waa waaaaaaa. I hate it when that happens.

[BennyJackdaw]

My parents were watching a movie last night during supper, and about two or three minutes into the movie, my dad shut it off. From what little I saw, it started out quite slow and, I'll admit, it looked kinda stupid from what I saw, but at the same time it felt like my parents didn't really give the movie a chance. I don't know why, it kind of bothers me. I mean, if I see cringe-worthy comedy early on like in a lot of spoof movies (like Kung Pow or any of the Blank Movie movies) then I'll turn it off right away, as that gives me a really good idea of what the movie's like. The moment I see the main villain is misanthropic, or the movie has the usual "humans are the absolute good" type story, I'll basically say "We're done here," and stop watching. But in the end, I usually stick around longer than two or three minutes. Also, this movie had none of those.

[Cecilia Peromi]

I have the worst feeling that I lost a friend last night....

Kalan if you're reading this I'm so sorry. I never meant to hurt you. You're my friend, please try to forgive me. I feel horrible now.

[Epilogue]

I really hate it when I finally open up to someone about a serious problem and they just tell me to "suck it up".
I know that I'm not starving or in poverty, I get pretty much anything I want because my parents trust me to be responsible, as long as it's reasonable and I show the work for it, but that doesn't make my problems invalid.
At least I'm trying to do something about it and not just whining on the internet about how much "my leif sux". Because my life isn't extremely awful, but it's not sunshine and rainbows either.
You're my best friend, step off of your high horse because you're not doing anyone any favors.

[Regi]

I really hate it when I finally open up to someone about a serious problem and they just tell me to "suck it up".
I know that I'm not starving or in poverty, I get pretty much anything I want as long as it's reasonable and I show the work for it, but that doesn't make my problems invalid.
At least I'm trying to do something about it and not just whining on the internet about how much "my leif sux". Because my life isn't extremely awful, but it's not sunshine and rainbows either.
You're my best friend, step off of your high horse because you're not doing anyone any favors.

You're right, you shouldn't feel like your feelings and problems are invalid. Friends should support each other no matter the size or situation of the problem. It's really cool that you are trying to fix it as well! Support always helps too and your friend needs to understand it. Everyone can be sad, we are all human. I've had this problem in the past too with 'friends'. The best thing to do is get toxic people out of your life. If you know the vibe is bad, let em' go. I know that sounds harsh and you maybe don't want to, but why have someone that's just going to put you down even more. I hope you find a friend that can support you, but most importantly you can support each other!

[HyenaKing]

This discerns good friends, and well, not as good friends. Im very altruistic to a healthy barrier, and sometimes It costs me alot of time, but it's always worth it.

OT: I feel lonley.

[Epilogue]

Thanks guys, you're right, I'm kicking them off my good list.


I feel lonely too. =/

[Styxx Von Doom]

Loneliness is a "normal" thing for us as a species, but there are exceptions and what not. If anyone needs an ear to talk to I'm offering it.

It severely grinds my gears when people tell me that I shouldn't give up on love when I tell them I am aromantic and romance is severely repulsive to the point of sickening me.

[HyenaKing]

Thanks guys, you're right, I'm kicking them off my good list.


I feel lonely too. =/

Let's talk sometime then.

[Alessia Starfurr]

I really hate it when I finally open up to someone about a serious problem and they just tell me to "suck it up".
I know that I'm not starving or in poverty, I get pretty much anything I want as long as it's reasonable and I show the work for it, but that doesn't make my problems invalid.
At least I'm trying to do something about it and not just whining on the internet about how much "my leif sux". Because my life isn't extremely awful, but it's not sunshine and rainbows either.
You're my best friend, step off of your high horse because you're not doing anyone any favors.

You're right, you shouldn't feel like your feelings and problems are invalid. Friends should support each other no matter the size or situation of the problem. It's really cool that you are trying to fix it as well! Support always helps too and your friend needs to understand it. Everyone can be sad, we are all human. I've had this problem in the past too with 'friends'. The best thing to do is get toxic people out of your life. If you know the vibe is bad, let em' go. I know that sounds harsh and you maybe don't want to, but why have someone that's just going to put you down even more. I hope you find a friend that can support you, but most importantly you can support each other!

On another note I wish and hope that relations with your parents and your boyfriend and his parents gets better, sounds like one of those old blasted Romeo and Juliet scenes...

[Epilogue]

[size=0px]On another note I wish and hope that relations with your parents and your boyfriend and his parents gets better, sounds like one of those old blasted Romeo and Juliet scenes...[/size]

Our parents get along fine together, they just don't want us dating because of religious crap (my family is Catholic, his is Protestant), as well as a few other things.

[★Amethyst★]

[size=0px]On another note I wish and hope that relations with your parents and your boyfriend and his parents gets better, sounds like one of those old blasted Romeo and Juliet scenes...[/size]

Our parents get along fine together, they just don't want us dating because of religious crap (my family is Catholic, his is Protestant), as well as a few other things.

That's so...100 years ago :p But when I think about it, differing ideological views in regards to among other things, religion, is why I decided to just be friends with my first boyfriend instead. My current boyfriend's family is catholic I think, though he's kind of the black sheep(not in a bad/ostracized way, just in lifestyle). Like literally, since he's a black/heavy metalhead

[Epilogue]

I know. At least I'm not in an arranged marriage or something... THAT would be a joke.
But people take religion so seriously, and I just have to ask why. But that's a question for another time.
But what's funny is that neither me or my boyfriend are religious, and like I said it's not only that... but it's kind of personal. Really personal.