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Offline skatenjoe10

Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« on: March 25, 2009, 03:49:27 AM »
I need some help. There's Something I Haven't ever told anyone on the forums.

I've been suffering from Anxiety, Loneliness and Depression for a wile. It sometimes really eats me up inside to the point that I'm actually questioning myself " What Is Wrong With Me "

Sometimes I doubt myself of my like in anthro animals as well ... Heh .. Something I never want to ever happen.

I just feel like I need some medicine for this ... but Im afraid that I'll loose my creativity take it. I don't know.

I've also been kind of lonely lately too. My best friend has been spending a lot of time with his new Girl Friend and well ... I've never really had a steady relationship ... To be honest I .. haven't really kissed anyone ether. I feel like everyone else is finding love .. except for me. I just want someone there .. to talk to, cuddle .. tell Him or Her that I Love Um.

Uggg  I Think I just need to get get my emotions out.


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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #1 on: March 25, 2009, 04:34:36 AM »
Last thing you want to do, obviously, is keep your emotions in any longer.

PM, Email, or Skype me... Or one of your friends, so we can get this straightened. I'm not gonna' have you in bad spirits, buddy!

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #2 on: March 25, 2009, 04:49:32 AM »
I can relate. I was pretty much in the same place you are, four or five years ago.

You should definitely talk to your doctor about it. I know exactly what you mean too, about losing your creativity. It can be kinda scary going through the process of seeking help, but if your emotions are affecting your lifestyle so much that it could seriously impact your future in a negative way, then something needs to be done about it. Give it a try, at the very least, and if you don't like what's happening, your doctor can change or stop the medication.

I do hope you can realize that all is never lost, though. You're still young and have a lot of time ahead of you. Who cares whether or not you've kissed someone? It doesn't make you any less of a person. It's just high school drama junk that makes you stress when there really is no good reason to. Don't think too much about what you haven't done, and think more about what you can do for the future.
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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #3 on: March 25, 2009, 04:55:17 AM »
I like WZ... She summarized most of what I planned to say.

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #4 on: March 25, 2009, 11:41:13 AM »
Thanks Everyone ... Its really just eating me up.

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2009, 11:58:21 AM »
Aww, Comet.. *hugs*
Remember, you're not completely alone, you have your friends to support you.
I know you feel an empty space that seems "unfillable" (it already happened to me), but when you fill it (I know you'll fill it! =D), you'll feel much better.
It's like WZ said: You're young and it doesn't matter if you ever kissed anyone before (I only did it once, so... ^^')
But anyway:
Llive your life and enjoy it, when the time comes... It comes. *smiles*
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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2009, 12:03:58 PM »
*smiles* Thanks Foxx  :)

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #7 on: March 25, 2009, 01:34:18 PM »
We love ya' Comet. Don't think otherwise for a moment, okay buddy? Remember: Now is Forever. So don't think ahead too much.

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #8 on: March 25, 2009, 01:37:26 PM »
Thanks Donovan * hugs u *

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #9 on: March 25, 2009, 01:40:17 PM »
*Hugs Comet back* I got more than enough time if you ever need to talk Comet. For that matter... That's exactly how I want to spend time: Helping friends.

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #10 on: March 25, 2009, 01:40:58 PM »
 :P Thanks Buddy

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #11 on: March 25, 2009, 01:43:33 PM »
*hugs both*
And you know you can count on me too.
I don't like when my friends are sad.
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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #12 on: March 25, 2009, 01:45:05 PM »
* Hugs Both Of you * Thanks Guys Friends Help out alot when things like these happen.  :P

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #13 on: March 25, 2009, 01:46:23 PM »
Lawwll... Once when I was in fourth grade I hit a friend for being angry. That didn't help.

But generally, I'm a good lean-on if you need one.

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Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
« Reply #14 on: March 25, 2009, 01:49:56 PM »
Lawwll... Once when I was in fourth grade I hit a friend for being angry. That didn't help.

But generally, I'm a good lean-on if you need one.

You hit a friend cuz you were angry?
But yeah, generally it doesn't help. I usually keep my bad mood to myself, but if someone starts bugging me... ^^'
But most of the time, I'm happy and laughing :3
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