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Title: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 03:49:27 AM: I need some help. There's Something I Haven't ever told anyone on the forums.

I've been suffering from Anxiety, Loneliness and Depression for a wile. It sometimes really eats me up inside to the point that I'm actually questioning myself " What Is Wrong With Me "

Sometimes I doubt myself of my like in anthro animals as well ... Heh .. Something I never want to ever happen.

I just feel like I need some medicine for this ... but Im afraid that I'll loose my creativity take it. I don't know.

I've also been kind of lonely lately too. My best friend has been spending a lot of time with his new Girl Friend and well ... I've never really had a steady relationship ... To be honest I .. haven't really kissed anyone ether. I feel like everyone else is finding love .. except for me. I just want someone there .. to talk to, cuddle .. tell Him or Her that I Love Um.

Uggg I Think I just need to get get my emotions out.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 04:34:36 AM: Last thing you want to do, obviously, is keep your emotions in any longer.

PM, Email, or Skype me... Or one of your friends, so we can get this straightened. I'm not gonna' have you in bad spirits, buddy!
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: WingedZephyr on March 25, 2009, 04:49:32 AM: I can relate. I was pretty much in the same place you are, four or five years ago.

You should definitely talk to your doctor about it. I know exactly what you mean too, about losing your creativity. It can be kinda scary going through the process of seeking help, but if your emotions are affecting your lifestyle so much that it could seriously impact your future in a negative way, then something needs to be done about it. Give it a try, at the very least, and if you don't like what's happening, your doctor can change or stop the medication.

I do hope you can realize that all is never lost, though. You're still young and have a lot of time ahead of you. Who cares whether or not you've kissed someone? It doesn't make you any less of a person. It's just high school drama junk that makes you stress when there really is no good reason to. Don't think too much about what you haven't done, and think more about what you can do for the future.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 04:55:17 AM: I like WZ... She summarized most of what I planned to say.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 11:41:13 AM: Thanks Everyone ... Its really just eating me up.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Arilys DuskFlare on March 25, 2009, 11:58:21 AM: Aww, Comet.. *hugs*
Remember, you're not completely alone, you have your friends to support you.
I know you feel an empty space that seems "unfillable" (it already happened to me), but when you fill it (I know you'll fill it! =D), you'll feel much better.
It's like WZ said: You're young and it doesn't matter if you ever kissed anyone before (I only did it once, so... ^^')
But anyway:
Llive your life and enjoy it, when the time comes... It comes. *smiles*
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 12:03:58 PM: *smiles* Thanks Foxx :)
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:34:18 PM: We love ya' Comet. Don't think otherwise for a moment, okay buddy? Remember: Now is Forever. So don't think ahead too much.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 01:37:26 PM: Thanks Donovan * hugs u *
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:40:17 PM: *Hugs Comet back* I got more than enough time if you ever need to talk Comet. For that matter... That's exactly how I want to spend time: Helping friends.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 01:40:58 PM: :P Thanks Buddy
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Arilys DuskFlare on March 25, 2009, 01:43:33 PM: *hugs both*
And you know you can count on me too.
I don't like when my friends are sad.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 01:45:05 PM: * Hugs Both Of you * Thanks Guys Friends Help out alot when things like these happen. :P
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:46:23 PM: Lawwll... Once when I was in fourth grade I hit a friend for being angry. That didn't help.

But generally, I'm a good lean-on if you need one.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Arilys DuskFlare on March 25, 2009, 01:49:56 PM: Quote from: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:46:23 PM
Lawwll... Once when I was in fourth grade I hit a friend for being angry. That didn't help.

But generally, I'm a good lean-on if you need one.

You hit a friend cuz you were angry?
But yeah, generally it doesn't help. I usually keep my bad mood to myself, but if someone starts bugging me... ^^'
But most of the time, I'm happy and laughing :3
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: skatenjoe10 on March 25, 2009, 01:51:20 PM: Me 2 maybe its just a phase
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:52:27 PM: The ironic thing is I hit HIM for HIM being angry.

And yeah, nowadays, I'm never in a bad mood. Furries are 70% to blame, I should think.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Arilys DuskFlare on March 25, 2009, 02:01:39 PM: Quote from: Comet on March 25, 2009, 01:51:20 PM
Me 2 maybe its just a phase

Let's hope so :3

Quote from: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 01:52:27 PM
The ironic thing is I hit HIM for HIM being angry.

And yeah, nowadays, I'm never in a bad mood. Furries are 70% to blame, I should think.

LAWL
Yeah, I'm happier because of furries too x3
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Dog Donovan on March 25, 2009, 02:13:00 PM: I'll talk this out after school. 10:45 Pacific time, specifically, so you don't gotta wait long. Thank God for conference week.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: Sareen on March 25, 2009, 02:46:25 PM: I can relate to this as well, I feel as if everyone else around me is finding love and it makes me feel unsure about myself and if theres something wrong with me that puts others off. But Im not here to like get anyone down >.< and I also agree with WZ. But if you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM or Email Me ( [email protected] ) if you want to like chat or need help with anything.
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: NekoOtome on March 25, 2009, 04:02:20 PM: Awww its okay Comet, I feel ya here. I've never had a boyfriend before, so needless to say I've never been kissed as well. If you need to, I'm also available on MSN or over email to talk to. Take care buddy!
Title: Re: Anxiety, Loneliness And Depression
Post by: WingedZephyr on October 29, 2010, 04:15:07 AM: Please do not revive threads where the last post is over two weeks old without permission from a moderator.