I dont like my mum...

[armagre]

I really don't like my mum.
shes a horrible beast who does nothing but destroy things. And I wish she would go away or something.

My whole life i was going to get my dads property when i got old enough, she did everything in her power to have dad loose that. She was successful but only cause some one else did all the work. All she did was make me and dads like miserable.
Mum is Bi-Polar and no doctor or hospital will take her, shes that bad. We've tried everything but no one will take her, not even her own family.
Shes heartless and cares about nothing but her self, she thinks the aliens are after her one day, the next CIA or some kind of BS


Guys, I'm loosing my home, I'm moving away from my friends, i don't want to leave here. But i hate my mother and i have no choice.
I wait now for the bank to kick us off the property, i hope its not till after Christmas.
That THING of a mum has done nothing for 5-6 years except eat our food and use up a whole role of toilet paper in a day all by its self, and it doesn't even have the decency to flush.
It makes me sick to look at it, hear it laugh at the TV that DAD payed for on the couch that's OURS not hers.
I hate her so much... to the point when i talk about it i cry I'm so full of hate cause i cant do anything about it, it will never change and it doesn't want to change.
I'm so tired of life right now its been nothing but crap for me all my life. I would wake up on weekends to my parent arguing about BS, dad trying to tell mum to calm down the CIA doesn't care about you, your fine or something. It was always stupid talk. Then when i got in school my mum would come home and start fights for hours over NOTHING.

My mum had a change to sue a company for half a million! and she was so close to winning....and then she just gave up. She gave up a half of million because 'it wasn't right' i don't remember what it was but i remember that she had every right. YOU SEE SHES CRAZY. Who in there right mind would turn down a winning trial for half a million!?!?!
Now she sits there on our couch and criticizes me every time i go to get something to eat.
Mum eats so much, normally theirs nothing to eat but cereal and we just got food a week before.

What should i do guys, i cant stand it anymore! every time the opens her YAP i want to slap her so hard, but i cant. Cause i will get in trouble. That disgusting creature can eat her weight in food, fart and burp like shes Godzilla and never flushes the toilet, ant i cant do anything about it! Its not fair, why is life anymore set up for the losers and pigs to win...why is she able to sit there safe and not a care in the world other than the aliens coming to get her and i have to worry about loosing the house!!! She things that's funny...its not fair....and its not right.
I need help guys, I've tried therapy. Nothing but nut-jobs with degrees. I'm so sad anymore its effecting me now. I use to want to draw now i cant even pick up a pencil... i no longer have the ability to draw anymore, i have the want i have the ideas. But my hand just doesn't want to draw and that makes me even more sad, cause that's all i was ever good at. Drawing and making jokes.
i don't know... sorry if this is confusing to you guys, Ive had this problem my whole life ant trying to make it so you under stand is hard.

[Aoren Deringer]

Well, I don't right no whata too say... Sounds like a unique situation, except for that bit about drawing, etc. I went through that same thing, its chronic depression to a T. Don't worry, you can ride it out, and there are suppressants (Or you could shoot up Dopamine, but thats a bit more extreme).

You can fix the way you feel, but you can't fix her.

[Ares the Ram]

If youre old enough to move out, go for it. Dont let your hate consume you. Use it as a driving force to work hard at maintaining a lifestyle without your mom. You may be able to get the police involved too if shes being destructive. Might wanna talk to an attorney for that one though. Hope this helps. 

[Harlequin_Felis]

I don't really agree with one thing.

I wonder who in their right mind *wouldn't* turn down half a mil when they personally believe taking it is the wrong thing to do?

Too many stupidly high payouts for greedy people these days.

As to the rest. You really only have three paths to take.
1) Shut up and put up. Not my recommendation, because we can all see how that's working thus far.
2) Take charge and sort things out. This one's the hardest, but it's the best possible outcome. Do an intervention, talk to her and mend those fences. You might not get everything sorted out, all Hallmark movie style, but it's a start.
3) Cut and run. Get the eff out of Dodge and try to put as much of this behind you as you can. It's not the best way to solve this, but sometimes it's the only way.

I'm kinda over-simplifying your options here, I'm too tired and too medicated to go into full counselling mode without talking in circles (ironically though, the rules from my counselling days explicitly stated that no advice could be given for fear of lawsuits). But I hope you get a broad sense of what you *can* do about the situation.

[iKero-chu™]

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