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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #255 on: March 07, 2011, 12:43:09 AM »
you dont need to where a collar to be a furry . just say you line anrtho to your dad.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #256 on: March 07, 2011, 01:56:18 AM »
well if you REALLY feel you absolutely must tell them your a furry, let them guess..or ask.
just start wearing collars and such and they will ask you what its all about..then you reply "oh, its my collar. im a furry..see"

and let it go from there, any questions they have they will ask..and if they dont care they will just say "oh.."

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #257 on: March 07, 2011, 02:01:14 AM »
i wouldn't where my collar around my parents ... just say your a furry thats what i did iam planing on where it around them after the con though
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #258 on: March 07, 2011, 02:53:16 AM »
Yeah I guess I could let them figure that out. :P

Now I need to work on a fursona.
I am the only furry in the area where I live........

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #259 on: March 07, 2011, 03:02:08 AM »
Yeah I guess I could let them figure that out. :P

Now I need to work on a fursona.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #260 on: March 08, 2011, 06:23:04 AM »
you don't need to start telling people. my personal view on it is, i don't tell anyone, but if they ask, why lie? I'll just say yes and leave it at that
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #261 on: March 08, 2011, 06:37:36 AM »
Yeah I was thinking of doing that.

But I just kinda wish there was another furry at my school to talk to an hang out with....... 
I kinda feel lonely :'(
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #262 on: March 08, 2011, 06:39:10 AM »
there might be, you would be surprised who is a furry. I've found furries whom i never expected to be furry. just cast around,you might find someone
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #263 on: March 08, 2011, 06:01:16 PM »
do what i do. post your fursona's name on as your middle name on facebook and put in the discrption your a furry. you can also use web sites to find some of us, i did and found a fur at my collage but different campass; he even when to the same high school. 
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #264 on: March 10, 2011, 11:44:14 PM »
I think most of us feel lonely.. I'd love to find another furry near me..  I had one and it was amazing, but when we ended things, our friendship fizzled out too :(..  And now im back to being lonely...

As for wearing a collar..  I wear mine 24/7..  However, I'm staying with my parents for a week..  And its sat on the shelf..   I feel weird without it..  but i cant introduce it to my parents..  Even though me and mum watched a thing on furries and she said she'd like to try it lol.. I still couldnt tell her... :(...

Telling people... Hmmm.. thats a difficult one to be honest... I've told a few people... But I suppose its easier because I explain it as Yiff first... I dont know how to go about it any other way! :(... 

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #265 on: March 13, 2011, 04:38:05 PM »
As most of you already know, my mother watched the fur interviews on 'OMG with peaches'.. So of course, she now thinks she knows what a furry is...
I just mentioned the topic on here about whether catwoman is a fur or not..
mother said that catwoman cant be a fur because she's not furry.. and then people on the tv were all loving and furry!
Oh no!! I think the people who went on the tv have given the world a very wrong view of furries!
hehe.. Bless my mother.. I may need to introduce her to this properly..
How do i go about this?  Any ideas?? lol..
Its easier to change someones opinion when they think we're evil..
but someone who thinks were just cuddly :/ lol!!
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #266 on: March 13, 2011, 04:45:18 PM »
just explain that Tv is for entertainment and will stretch the truth to do so. Then explain what a furry really is.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #267 on: March 13, 2011, 04:51:07 PM »
I've tried.. She doesnt seem to get it.. I've also tried to explain the difference between the Furry side and the porn/yiff side... She just thinks its all some big joke :/
I hate tv!!
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #268 on: March 13, 2011, 05:35:10 PM »

Print this for her.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #269 on: March 13, 2011, 05:40:32 PM »
Showed her... She gets it more now.. She wants a full fur suit.. She says she'd feel uncomfortable otherwise... She's not true furry, she's just jumping on the bandwagon... lol...
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