I feel you with regards to police: I got once hit on the head once in the subway by some random guys. Not only did no one do anything, but it was also on camera.
I went to the police but because I "didn't have any physical/outward signs to show for it" - meaning, an example they gave: I didn't have a nose-bleed, therefor I didn't have anything physical to show for it I actually got hurt. I even said there were cameras, but nope.
The subway company recognised these guys from other such situations but they too couldn't stop anything, because the police had to take care of that.
Anyways, what I mean is: Sorry to hear that happened for you.
Make sure, whatever they say, though, to keep reporting your father. Document everything with regards to him. If there are instances where you can photograph or film him (e.g. when you're in your room and you see him outside, try to do this without him noticing you), write down every occurrence. Date, time, everything.
Any texts, emails or voice-messages, keep them. Save them somewhere.
The police can keep saying it's your fault, then you provide a full file with all the copies what you have and dump it on their desk, telling them to actually help you because that's their job.
I'd be firm with them if I'd have enough evidence and just keep persisting, no matter how stupid I might feel sounding like a broken record, it's repetition that is often needed in situations like this.
As for you saving up money to meet your girlfriend, I'm not sure why they would double-tax for that? So that part confuses me.
It should be just considered as money for your own expenses, for holidays and stuff. And that's what I would keep it as, it's holiday money.
While you might not like stopping with work to relax, it sounds like you're already busy doing all kinds of things already. I get what you're saying, but if you feel you're at a breaking point you need to do something else. Something entirely different from what you've been doing, because it is just a never-ending cycle and it's getting to you.
So maybe find something to do that you can keep yourself busy with, but something that's fun and relaxing to do.
Also, I wish you the best with your relationship. I know LDR (or LAT-relaties
) are pretty hard. So if you feel you need to talk to someone about it, please message me about it.