These forums indeed foster an environment of kindness. It's why when we see users not being kind to others via insulting messages, we take action (see the Rules). This is an environment to be respectful to each other and not create any drama, as this wouldn't foster a safe and welcoming environment.
We don't have to all be friends, but we can be respectful to one another.
Simply by stating you want to focus on what was said rather than moving forward and learning from others, people who actually want to help, you want to focus on something that happened on another topic, which was removed for a reason.
I would highly suggest we keep to this topic and don't delve into further drama pertaining what has happened on another topic.