Help....with a girl

[SilverSolstive]

So....I don't know where to begin. I'm straight, I like girls, or well a girl in particular. Ok there's a Valentine's Day dance this Friday at my school. There's this girl in particular that I want to ask but I'm afraid of rejection. Isn't there a phobia for that? But don't think that if I'm rejected life will continue. No, word will spread and my friends will tease me, not for rejection, but for even asking her. Not many people like her. When I first joined that her team, (I was moved into Gifted.) I hated her, because I like her. I tend to be a bit rude to girls I like to not attract attention that I like them, it's weird and accidental. Then one day, she pops up and asks some questions about me so I do the same and learn that she's a chill person. She always laughs at my jokes even if they're not funny ones, even if I don't laugh. She also gives me small, intentionally harmless punches when I tease her. In a period I look back and catch her staring at me and in another period I find myself staring at her. She moves her hair to the left side of her shoulder and I see the right side of my face. When she catches me I start hyperventilating feeling like a creeper. Now, I can't decide rejection and embarrasment or bravery. I wouldn't mind helpful advice from the guys but ladies and girls, can you tell me what this stuff means? How do I go about this?
I realize how long this post is, I'm kinda stressed out.

Think you got skill like I do? I'm sorry you've been lied to.

[SilverSolstive]

Plus, I can never find the right moment to speak to her. I don't like her best friend who she's always around so that's a problem. And we know how most girls (not all) show out in front of their friends when a guy asks them out or whatever.

Think you got skill like I do? I'm sorry you've been lied to.

[Dragonbragoshago]

Well my suggestion would be to give her a very nice valentines day card and writes something very sweet and ask her to go to the dance with you. This way she can read it in private and you wont have to deal with her best friend. You could also see if she is going to the date with anyone and off handily mention you're free that night and that you should go together that. Really hope it works out

[SilverSolstive]

Would I give it directly to her? If not then I might be able to stick it in her binder.

Think you got skill like I do? I'm sorry you've been lied to.

[Dragonbragoshago]

What ever you feel more comfortable with personally I would give it to her directly I would feel a little weird slipping it on her person with out her knowing.

[Caesium Iodide]

Ah. Young likeness. I remember my junior high years, when I liked a boy. I did something really dumb-- ANYWAY. 

Hm. Let's see. You want to ask this girl you like to the dance? Perhaps you could ask to speak to her privately for a few minutes after school's ended, that way if she turns you down, it's not stuck in your head all day.

And from the information you've given, there's a small chance that she may have a crush on you as well. You'll never know if you don't ask.

I wish you luck Silver. Girls are very confusing creatures, trust me. 

[Nicolas Cage]

You'll never know if you don't ask.

Pretty much this.

You don't want to pass up the opportunity and wonder what could've been. Even if the outcome is negative, it's important to know the truth, so that when you move forward, you're operating under facts and not assumptions.

Get the message across however you're comfortable with, but get it across.

And here's hoping for the best. 

[SilverSolstive]

Ah. Young likeness. I remember my junior high years, when I liked a boy. I did something really dumb-- ANYWAY. 

Hm. Let's see. You want to ask this girl you like to the dance? Perhaps you could ask to speak to her privately for a few minutes after school's ended, that way if she turns you down, it's not stuck in your head all day.

And from the information you've given, there's a small chance that she may have a crush on you as well. You'll never know if you don't ask.

I wish you luck Silver. Girls are very confusing creatures, trust me. 

You'll never know if you don't ask.

Pretty much this.

You don't want to pass up the opportunity and wonder what could've been. Even if the outcome is negative, it's important to know the truth, so that when you move forward, you're operating under facts and not assumptions.

Get the message across however you're comfortable with, but get it across.

And here's hoping for the best. 

Thanks to the both of you. Maybe I'll do something with the card but if not I will: On Thursday  1)Ask if she leaves on the first wave of buses(I leave then) 2)Ask her what specials she has(so I'll know which side of the school she'll leave from) 3)Ask her if she doing anything Friday evening.(<--1,2, and 3 are when she leaves 5th period for lockers. I'll catch her in the hall.) 4)Outside school going to the bus, I'll have to run for my life to the other side of the school and look for her and then I will ask.
I want to do this Thursday so she has time to think. Any flaws?

[SilverSolstive]

What ever you feel more comfortable with personally I would give it to her directly I would feel a little weird slipping it on her person with out her knowing.

I might make the card only to tell her to meet a mysterious person (me) in the 7C hallway and then I will carry on with the plan knowing I have more time to get to her privately.

[Aconitum]

Ah. Young likeness. I remember my junior high years, when I liked a boy. I did something really dumb-- ANYWAY. 

Hm. Let's see. You want to ask this girl you like to the dance? Perhaps you could ask to speak to her privately for a few minutes after school's ended, that way if she turns you down, it's not stuck in your head all day.

And from the information you've given, there's a small chance that she may have a crush on you as well. You'll never know if you don't ask.

I wish you luck Silver. Girls are very confusing creatures, trust me. 

You'll never know if you don't ask.

Pretty much this.

You don't want to pass up the opportunity and wonder what could've been. Even if the outcome is negative, it's important to know the truth, so that when you move forward, you're operating under facts and not assumptions.

Get the message across however you're comfortable with, but get it across.

And here's hoping for the best. 

Thanks to the both of you. Maybe I'll do something with the card but if not I will: On Thursday  1)Ask if she leaves on the first wave of buses(I leave then) 2)Ask her what specials she has(so I'll know which side of the school she'll leave from) 3)Ask her if she doing anything Friday evening.(<--1,2, and 3 are when she leaves 5th period for lockers. I'll catch her in the hall.) 4)Outside school going to the bus, I'll have to run for my life to the other side of the school and look for her and then I will ask.
I want to do this Thursday so she has time to think. Any flaws?

This is a solid plan, sir. I wish you the best of luck!

[SilverSolstive]

Ah. Young likeness. I remember my junior high years, when I liked a boy. I did something really dumb-- ANYWAY. 

Hm. Let's see. You want to ask this girl you like to the dance? Perhaps you could ask to speak to her privately for a few minutes after school's ended, that way if she turns you down, it's not stuck in your head all day.

And from the information you've given, there's a small chance that she may have a crush on you as well. You'll never know if you don't ask.

I wish you luck Silver. Girls are very confusing creatures, trust me. 

You'll never know if you don't ask.

Pretty much this.

You don't want to pass up the opportunity and wonder what could've been. Even if the outcome is negative, it's important to know the truth, so that when you move forward, you're operating under facts and not assumptions.

Get the message across however you're comfortable with, but get it across.

And here's hoping for the best. 

Thanks to the both of you. Maybe I'll do something with the card but if not I will: On Thursday  1)Ask if she leaves on the first wave of buses(I leave then) 2)Ask her what specials she has(so I'll know which side of the school she'll leave from) 3)Ask her if she doing anything Friday evening.(<--1,2, and 3 are when she leaves 5th period for lockers. I'll catch her in the hall.) 4)Outside school going to the bus, I'll have to run for my life to the other side of the school and look for her and then I will ask.
I want to do this Thursday so she has time to think. Any flaws?

This is a solid plan, sir. I wish you the best of luck!

Thanks!
I'll be able to interview her in the morning actually because she helps the librabrian so yeah. Feeling more confident with a plan.

[Dragonbragoshago]

Wish you the best of luck

[SilverSolstive]

Thanks!

[SilverSolstive]

My plan will be finally be fulfilled tomorrow. I asked if she even planned on going to the dance and she said no. I won't make her spend money on something she didn't plan to do so I'll buy tickets for the both of us. Tomorrow I'll ask her. I've changed some things, I'll ask her after 5th period. If she says yes at the dance, I'll be giving her a pretty flower and candy. I hope she doesn't think it's a date. The flower will be small, like a one that can go into her head, so that it's not like a date. The candy will be Sour Punch, she doesn't like chocolate much. Excited, but scared.

[Caesium Iodide]

This makes me very excited for you!! I wish you the best of luck sir!