I couldn't care less what people call me. If that's what they think of me for a harmless lifestyle, whatever. I know it's harmless and I am confident in myself, I needn't allow their uneducated words bring me down, as that is what they want. It's too bad they can't see past their noses, but giving them attention is lets them know you are hurt by it.
Of course, I have had a friend **censor** around and call me and a few friends **censor**. Afterward, he proceeded to share some of his food with one of my fellow furries, as he was good friends with him. No reason to be offended, as that is not at all what he thinks of us. Just not his thing, all cool.
My point rests here. Getting all worked up over it is kind of pointless, as sometimes they only say it as a friendly jeer, and other times they do it to make you worked up. Same goes with any slur. Doesn't mean everybody should run around the streets shouting it at the top of their lungs, but we should be less apt to be offended by every bit of hate we get.