So, yesterday I spent the afternoon with my good friend Harley off in Saratoga. We were having a great time, but they once we were getting a bite to eat, he started talking about how he’s come over his thing about not liking gay/bi people, and about how he wouldn’t care if a few of our friends or myself told him that we were gay/bi. Then afterword for the next twenty minutes, he’d keep using me as an example. Once we started the long, long care trip home, he finally brought up that himself and the group of my friends had noticed that I was talking a lot with Buddy (my current mate), and my one friend Cossey even took a picture of a conversation I had with him and showed it to them.
So, pretty much, for the last two months they had all been wondering if I was gay. The entire group, except for Harley, was actually plotting a way to confront me all at once and practically interrogate me about it. Harley told them however, that would’ve been a bad idea, and that doing this would make them lose a friend. Yeah, if they all would’ve come barging in my door to do that, I would’ve beat them like crazy.
Now, I told Harley everything, about me being pansexual, dating Buddy and being a furry, and now we’re even closer friends. He said he won’t tell the others what he found out, because he feels that if they don’t have the sack to ask me themselves, then they shouldn’t know. But here’s my problem; do I let them go through with their plan, and make them feel like crap, or do I get Harley to stop them from doing it? He says they probably won’t do it if he doesn’t, but I feel like I should do something if they’re going to be plotting against me in such ways for this amount of time. I’m half tempted to confront each of them and just make them feel like douches, but I’m not exactly sure. Any advice?
