I feel like a freak :(

[Rhett (Twister)]

Alright, so heres the story. a couple of days ago my boyfriend and i were on the couch watching The Simpsons (our favorite show) when he started petting my head. I curled up into him and started purring. He asked me what i was doing because he didn't know that i was furry. So i explained what i was doing and told him about being furry, and now he won't even look at me. I've tried to talk to him, but he just ignores me like i'm not even there. I feel like a freak of nature. can somebody please give me advice? I've run out of options.

[Ares the Ram]

I think he may just be overreacting to this new information. Hes comfortable with you enough to where he can pet you. Its really nothing to get upset over. If anything, leave him a note where he has to read it, like tape it on the door and the wall so when he opens it, it comes off the wall. Just explain that its nothing and you want to talk. *thumbs up*

[Rhett (Twister)]

okay, I'll try that  tomorrow, thank you

[___]

Screw him. He's not worth your time if he won't accept you for who you are. (Well, after the note... :])

[Rhett (Twister)]

thanks, shadow, it's just that we've been dating for 9 months now

[WingedZephyr]

Give him some time to warm up to it, and show that you're still the same person you always have been.

[Daemon]

Ease him into it, slowly reveal your furry self to him and make sure ta ask him if he feels uncomfortable. If so, tell him that it isnt anything that you want to change and that maybe you should both move on.

[Rhett (Twister)]

Ease him into it, slowly reveal your furry self to him and make sure ta ask him if he feels uncomfortable. If so, tell him that it isnt anything that you want to change and that maybe you should both move on.

well, i sort of ruined that plan that day

[Zaspher]

I was once dating a girl who was against my Pansexuality. She still harasses me about it. I told her about it because I thought I trusted her but shes really stubborn so I just ignore her.
        If he doesn't accept you he's not worth your time. Trust your inner being and see what you find right and strive for it.

[Daemon]

Sorry for going off topic, but what is Pansexuality? Im afraid of googling it...

[Rhett (Twister)]

it's sort of like bisexuality, but not really...

[Daemon]

elaborate please?

[Rhett (Twister)]

from wikipedia: "The term pansexual generally is used for a person who does not classify their sexuality with a person's sex, but their gender. They believe that there is a set difference between sex and gender - gender being the socially constructed condition of being male or female, and sex being the biological condition of male or female.

People who are pansexual may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Some suggest that pansexuality is more accurately described by its adepts: human- or person-oriented. Despite a person who is pansexual's fluid sexuality, some may have a preference. A person who is pansexual may be attracted to all genders and sexes, but have a preference, (for example) for pre-operative transsexual people, other people who are pansexuals, masculine lesbians, intersexed people, etc."

[Daemon]

Oh. I thought it meant something like what I am. That is being straight, but attracted to anthromorphic character males & females. Is there a name for that?

[Zaspher]

I only care about the persons inner being not sex or appearence.