rant: my mother is stalking me

[Goblin Cat 😸]

I'm not trying to be condescending here, but if your mother is as bad as you say she is, she's probably just getting enjoyment just knowing she's getting under your skin harassing you without having to do anything. It's kind of like the concept of don't feed the trololol or you'll just fuel them even more. If she knows this sort of thing riles you up, she's likely to keep doing it until you do something stupid, then put you in jail for it.

[Kaprika]

Be careful not to become so focused on your mother's actions and getting revenge that you find yourself stooping to her level and becoming just like her. Rather than being overcome with hate and spite, instead seek to revel in satisfaction and confidence you'd get from knowing you've overcome her issues and become better than her.

..well i WOULD if i was aiming to be "the better person" in this situation. thing about that is i am spiteful, and vengeful and am not beyond getting my paws dirtied to get the satisfaction of not just a vicotry...but to seek a crushing defeat by my enemy.
...YES im petty..

Just keep in mind there is a diffrence between justice and vengance.

is ther REALLY a difference?
there a means to the same end...just one is supposed to make you "fell better" about it and follow the good litle boys and girls book.
if there is one thing i learned from life that it  tought me...if the other person isnt going to show you mercy...then you shoudlnt either