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Offline Akula Filiko

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I feel so horrible
« on: February 03, 2011, 08:39:15 PM »
As some of you know, I m currently in a crisis with my mate. I talked about how I feel that a long distance relationship is hard and I wanted someone closer. He saw what I said and now I feel like an idiot for not talking about it with him. What makes everything harder is that he told me that I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him, and I really don't want to hurt his feelings. I've never been in a relationship before so I have no idea how to handle this problem. I feel so guilty that I actually have a stomach ache right now. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break his heart. It would break mine too.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #1 on: February 03, 2011, 08:40:20 PM »
Tell him what you just told us. He needs to know how you feel.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #2 on: February 03, 2011, 08:42:34 PM »
be honest with him.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #3 on: February 03, 2011, 10:13:34 PM »
Quote from: Akula Filiko on February 03, 2011, 08:39:15 PM
As some of you know, I m currently in a crisis with my mate. I talked about how I feel that a long distance relationship is hard and I wanted someone closer. He saw what I said and now I feel like an idiot for not talking about it with him. What makes everything harder is that he told me that I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him, and I really don't want to hurt his feelings. I've never been in a relationship before so I have no idea how to handle this problem. I feel so guilty that I actually have a stomach ache right now. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break his heart. It would break mine too.

a long distance relationship can be a really hard thing to maintain..especialy long term.
an important aspect of a long term relationship is contact..and you need to let him know its hard that you cant touch him..be with him..

that you dont NOT love him..your just frusterated with the separation. talk it out, and see what he feels..hey MAY feel the same way even
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #4 on: February 03, 2011, 10:26:58 PM »
I'm gonna try to talk to him tomorrow when he;s on Facebook.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #5 on: February 04, 2011, 02:37:07 PM »
Right, lets get one simple thing out of the way first: I am in no way mad at you. What so ever.

We'll talk about it, but I'm not mad at you, I could never be mad at you. So just chill out hun.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #6 on: February 04, 2011, 11:33:20 PM »
This discussion would be better suited for Privet Messaging and not in open space.
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Re: I feel so horrible
« Reply #7 on: February 05, 2011, 01:52:52 AM »
You can lock this, it's been sorted out.
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