How do you guys do it?

[Korisu]

I've been in the fandom I guess for about a couple months or so and I really Havnt had any real good friends in the fandom? I'm not a loner but I seem to talk to someone and then they disappear or ignore or get real busy, or they just don't respond and act like I'm there. I thought making friends would be easier but it's apparently hard. I am arous 15 years so I obviously don't want to hang with 40s no offense ha but, I try to get more involved like right now to meet bew people and usually it doesnt work out or start :p
I am not the most roleplaying/best furry out there. I am not the most playful cause that isn't how I do things, maybe that's why? It's just me cause when I look around people go
"nice to meet you" * shakes paw*
I can be cool and all just I think in picky or not like most furries?
Thanks :p

[iKero-chu™]

Well, just stay being yourself first of all. Never change who you are for anyone :'3

Maybe you should try adding more small talk?
Or maybe you just pick busy furs.
:'P

[Korisu]

Why would I want bust furs :p
And ya I try, well have to meet first

[iKero-chu™]

Try looking for furs nearby or in your local area.

[Self-sain]

Sometimes ppl click wither irl or internet. I rember when I first joined tthere was a little group of use … but sadly they kind of left, and haven't tottalyy made that pack again. Its just hit and miss

[Buddywolf]

Furs come and go but you shall find a pack to hang with.  we all do

[Puncia]

Not to talk badly about being young, but do remember that older people tend to be more mature and better at being friends. At least, that's my impression.

And I agree with iKero about staying true to yourself. As an example, I burp in public without hiding it. If anyone dislikes this a lot, they're not fit to be a friend of mine because I often do obscene jokes and such. They may be a great person but we're just not good together. C'est la vie.

[Korisu]

Ya true true .
Hopefully I find my "group" haha it's been months..

Post Merge: February 01, 2011, 07:33:15 PMTo Pun I agree 100%!
I definitely see it, and all the world does. Teenagers.
Simple as that, we aren't all perfect

[serpington]

you just have to keep at it, you'll find a pack eventualy. and @puncia, maturity doesn't always come with age. just ask my dad, half the time when he's not at work he's got the maturity of a five year old.

[Puncia]

There's a difference between being immature and being childish. Anyone can be childish and I think it's even healthy to be able to keep and show that side of you. Immaturity can be of all ages but it's more common with teenagers and children.

And I also said tend because I'm well aware that it's not true. But you know as well as I do that it's what is most common, even if some are the exceptions that proves the rule.

[Korisu]

Ya, I mean it's good to be calm and cool. But not completely like immature.
Just do what you want right?
:p anyone know furries my age? Like for friends

[armagre]

if your looking for friends to talk to, you can IM me anytime
i dont like it either when people go IDLE on me

[Saphira]

Well hi there  I'm all new here, but I would like to give you a chance, but if you don't want to 'caus we live in different countrys, or 'caus I don't belong to any 'group' too it's ok... I'm 15 by the way and always looking for new friends

*thinks too myself* did I just say that in a really wierd kind of way?

[Daemon]

if you ever need to talk or anything, pm me. Im 14, so im not that old... but by ma familia's inside joke, im 41...