Okay well my bf and I have a long distance relationship, and he said that he may finally be able to come see me later. No prob right? Wrong. You see, I am a VERY nervous shy person though I pretend not to be. Also, Ive never had a real bf before in my life. Im scared that when he comes I wont be able to talk because Im so scared or that Ill be too shy to take a kiss or even, at an extreme, that Ill faint or lock myself in the bathroom, freaking out. Please help, I care about my bf a lot and dont want to mess it up. Also, I DO plan on telling him about this...
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Well for starters, let him know your the shy person, so if something does happen, he wont take it the wrong way, because misconceptions happen a lot more then we et them out to be.
Second, if your super shy person, take Deep Breathes, DEEEEEP Breathes. And no matter how hard it seems, try your best to strike up a conversation with him. Even if it's totally awkward, it's a start
I know everyone says to take deep breathes when your nervous or shy, but it helps, because it also gets you into that mindset of
"Ok... I can do this!"
For Conversations try to find that one thing you both like
FOR EXAMPLE
see if he likes show # 1, and if he does, then WHOO HOO, you found a stepping stone to begin cementing further bondness.
If he doesnt like show # 1, immediately back off of the topic of show # 1 and see if he'll try to find that middle ground topic, if he does, then great makes it easier for you
if not, then turn to show # 2 or something
now I honestly have no idea why i'm giving relationship advice because i've never been in one. But it'll be a rocky start, and hopefully in the future, you get less and less shy around him, and suddenly he's that person who gets you talking and super sociable.