Confused about my crush, unsure what to do. But I don't want to date for awhile, I made that clear and my last relationship was working out at all and waited too long to stop it from continuing... Anyways if it ends up that we begin to date, I don't want our friendship to break if the relationship doesn't work out, we've been friends for a long time and I enjoy his company. He's a great guy, very sweet, protective, and we get along well. he has feelings, and I always was too nervous to show them back, and he always dated (and is currently dating another girl) which made me step back. Eight years this has been going on, and even told my sister one point "don't get me wrong I care about your sister a lot, I just don't think she's wants a guy like me" damn.