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Well, yes, having the window seat while you have to travel further than the person next to you is an inconveniance, but luckily, in the Netherlands, all you have to do is stand up from your seat, and the person next to you will always get the message and stand up, aswell, to let you leave your seat, without the need for any words to be spoken.
And, then this lady just sits down beside you, and you spend the next 45 chatting with each other. But, such is life in the NL.
Funny, how in contrast with Finland, under the right condition, you can actually make someone feel a little bad if you don't sit next to them!
When there are lots of full seats, and it starts to get acceptable for people to sit next to each other, and someone sees you approaching, and clears their bag off of the seat next to them, but you walk on to a diffirent seat, despite having seen that the seat is clear, you can almost always see just a tiny spark of dissapointment, and inconfidense in the person that you just denied. It's kinda like a miniature version of the harrasment that is ignoring someone, who just offered you a high five... :s
It's funny how much non-verbal communication happends, without half of the people involved even realising it...