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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #105 on: August 27, 2010, 11:53:18 PM »
That teacher is awesome. We need more people like that!

I mentioned TFF in an in-class English essay today. I trust my English teacher so I'm not too worried. If she asks questions I can answer them, and I'm sure she won't freak out about it.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #106 on: August 28, 2010, 09:04:53 AM »
imma not tell anyone i have not already told >_<


i get enough trouble from school already  :(

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #107 on: August 28, 2010, 11:40:35 AM »
I am warming to the idea of it, I have a Furry Pride badge on my Bag, And my whole school knows *As you know i got punched for being one*
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #108 on: August 28, 2010, 12:55:10 PM »
If I had to pick a way of announcing that I'm a furry, I think I'd just show up at school one day with a tail... Keep it simple... Not too odvious....
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #109 on: August 28, 2010, 01:56:19 PM »
So, luckily, I got to introduce a lot of people to the fandom and educate them on the REAL furries.
Furry is pretty much an ambiguous term that depends on what the person interprets it as. This is a "problem" and, at the same time, simplifies it and makes it more innocent. I know a handful of furries who are in it because of the porn, but honestly?

Take the base meaning, "One who likes anthropomorphic animals and identifies alongside that community". You honestly don't need more than that, because from that point onward it's practically... down to what one makes of it. For themselves. Not for anyone else, but themselves. If someone's automatically lumping it with sex or something like that and making you out to be some sexual deviant (oh derp, in the same society where sexuality is apparently a major part of a person, and you can't say that you're asexual as a response without someone saying "you just don't know how good it feels to realise it's a big part of life!"), then I've said it before and I'll say it again: Ignore them, because they're not worth dealing with.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #110 on: August 29, 2010, 02:33:56 AM »
That teacher is awesome. We need more people like that!

I mentioned TFF in an in-class English essay today. I trust my English teacher so I'm not too worried. If she asks questions I can answer them, and I'm sure she won't freak out about it.

She is a very awesome and inspiring woman. :) I'm glad you had the guts to go for it, too!
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #111 on: September 03, 2010, 03:54:50 AM »
Intitially, I wanted to be secretive about being a furry. But in the end I stopped caring, I'm open with telling people about being a furry now.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #112 on: September 07, 2010, 10:22:34 PM »
Well my Mom, Dad, Brothers and most of my friends know that I'm a furry, and none of them care. ^_^

I'm not really too worried about some one beating me up for being a furry, as it would be a huge mistake on their part.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #113 on: September 08, 2010, 08:33:22 AM »
Well my Mom, Dad, Brothers and most of my friends know that I'm a furry, and none of them care. ^_^

I'm not really too worried about some one beating me up for being a furry, as it would be a huge mistake on their part.

Its always nice when it turns out like that

I did actually get punched for being one but lets just say i got revenge hehe >:3
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #114 on: September 08, 2010, 11:02:11 AM »
i hate to be hatin on some of you guys cause i'm not really, but i do wanna say this;

you guys seem to treat being furry like people treat being gay. it's really not. being furry means nothing more than what kinda music you listen to or what kinds of games you like to play. the idea of 'coming out' as a furry to me just sounds totally ridiculous. it really is not that bigger deal.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #115 on: September 08, 2010, 11:19:02 AM »
i hate to be hatin on all of you guys cause i'm not really, but i do wanna say this;

you guys seem to treat being furry like people treat being gay. it's really not. being furry means nothing more than what kinda music you listen to or what kinds of games you like to play. the idea of 'coming out' as a furry to me just sounds totally ridiculous. it really is not that bigger deal.


I never treated it like that although with my wording it may have sounded like it, I just never was "really" into it up until about a month or two ago.

I don't hide my hobby's.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #116 on: September 08, 2010, 11:22:57 AM »
i hate to be hatin on all of you guys cause i'm not really, but i do wanna say this;

you guys seem to treat being furry like people treat being gay. it's really not. being furry means nothing more than what kinda music you listen to or what kinds of games you like to play. the idea of 'coming out' as a furry to me just sounds totally ridiculous. it really is not that bigger deal.


I never treated it like that although with my wording it may have sounded like it, I just never was "really" into it up until about a month or two ago.

I don't hide my hobby's.

i should really have made an exception of certain people because you were one of the people who i should have excluded. i apologise... i'll edit my post a bit. really, it's comments like "realising that i'm a furry" which kinda annoy me because it suggests that there were several years of turmoil and many sleepless nights debating it. if there was indeed sleepless nights and turmoil then i would possibly say you were taking the whole thing a bit too seriously.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #117 on: September 08, 2010, 11:27:08 AM »
That's no problem, and I agree there are a LOT of threads about that.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #118 on: September 08, 2010, 11:36:23 AM »
Josh i agree
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #119 on: September 08, 2010, 09:00:43 PM »
Yea, I agree with you Josh. If you're having sleepless nights about it, then you may be a furry lifestyler, or a thein, but not not just a furry for pete's sake...

 

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