I don't think it should be too hard, I myself haven't come out to all my friends, some suspect it, some I've come out to and they don't care they just make jokes sometimes, my family thinks I'm weird for wearing a collar and tail, my brother knew/suspected and doesn't care. Its easier to ease them into it too, like me wearing a tail, then telling them once they are used to the tail. I haven't come out to some of my friends because they will equal me to another fur in the area that doesn't have a good name because he is extremely sexual. I haven't told my mom because I know she will look things up and freak about it regardless of how I explain it to her. Im still me, I havent changed so its shouldnt be a big deal, its not like its really 'life changing' like coming out gay is. (I use that analogy because it can be a life changing experience and have no problem with the gay community)