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I think I'm Bi
« on: April 11, 2009, 04:17:46 AM »
Title says it all. Don't know what to do...

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2009, 04:29:19 AM »
Its alright. It shouldn't make a diffrence wether you like the opposite gender or not. Love is love no matter what. Are you parents against gay/bi people though?

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2009, 04:31:32 AM »
There isn't anything you necessarily *have* to do.
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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2009, 05:20:01 AM »
My parents aren't against, as they put it. But I'm sure deep down they might be somewhat upset.

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2009, 08:13:15 AM »
Ooooooh... so thats what that means. Oh well it makes no difference who you choose to love. Your parents should support your choice and if they don't that's their problem! Furries live to love, they love to love! :) :-* :shcoked:

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2009, 08:57:44 AM »
well said
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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2009, 09:51:35 AM »
Thinks... umm... Adura. :)

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #7 on: April 11, 2009, 08:46:18 PM »
As long as you're ok with being bi, that's all that should matter.

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #8 on: April 12, 2009, 12:48:07 AM »
Thanks, you guys have been great support.  :D

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #9 on: April 12, 2009, 01:39:20 AM »
That's what we're here for aren't we. Just glade to be of service. ^_^V O:)

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2009, 10:04:32 AM »
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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2009, 11:43:58 AM »
being bi really isn't a big deal.. i think most people are bi, but are twisted to heterosexuality by society. (aka; Billy Joe Armstrong's (and probably loads more) theory)
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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #12 on: April 13, 2009, 12:53:37 AM »
Well, for one, are you really bi? Or just find people of the same gender attractive. A lot of people confuse physical attraction with romantic sexuality.

Could you imagine spending your life with someone of your own gender? Some people don't take this into consideration. Genders do have their specific "traits" like the somewhat feral nature of males and the foresight of females.

Could you actually stand not having any sexual contact with the opposite gender? Until you find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll be back and forth between genders, but unless you and your mate are into swinging or group stuff, you'll have zero intimacy with the opposite gender.

Just some things to consider. Bisexuality is becoming more of a fad and less of an actual sexuality. I see so many people considering themselves bi for all the wrong reason, I just want you to make sure that you're positive.

You might also be a pansexual. Pansexuals aren't limited to males and/or females. They don't see gender. They'd pair up with a hermaphrodite, tranny, ANYTHING!

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #13 on: April 13, 2009, 01:36:57 AM »
(Smiles and hugs bigmanrob) Yea. You have a lot of things to take into consideration, but you can talk to me, Kuro, or whoever if you need anyone to talk to ok? :)

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Re: I think I'm Bi
« Reply #14 on: April 13, 2009, 03:24:34 PM »
In reference to what Eurydice said. Think about it hard because I thought I was Bi for several years because I juggled the thought of being with girls I had an attraction to. I find women sexy, beautiful, intellegent but I seemed to have attractions to those who have thinner figures like men or have a certain attitude to them such as confidence and assertiveness. I never really thought of them in a physical/sexual sense really, more so an emotional sense. I kissed a girl and it was okay, nothing amazing, nothing special. From then I determined that I merely like the thought of women but never would fall for them as hard or strongly as I would for a man. I love the male figure and how much they confuse me sometimes. Really think about it, you may be bi-curious at the moment, no need to decide and label yourself. Im straight with a comfortableness to kiss girls and say that they are appealing.

 

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