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Re: Orientations
« Reply #30 on: April 18, 2008, 06:38:17 PM »
True, but I'm a pretty scrawny 17, and the last time I got into an actual fight was around half a decade ago, which is really astounding considering I run on a pretty short fuse. But hey, just hang in there. Sooner or later things'll fall into place.

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Re: Orientations
« Reply #31 on: April 18, 2008, 07:46:34 PM »
Thanks.
Iv already managed to tell 3 people.
So I feel kindda good about that.
I guess Ill just have to wait a while.
How did you tell everyone? Or was it obvious in some way?

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« Reply #32 on: April 18, 2008, 09:01:44 PM »
For me, it was kind of I had to tell a few people and it didn't seem like a big deal so I'm pretty happy. Though some of my boyfriends haven't figured it out. xD I cannot see how thay don't know, it's pretty obvious to me. lol.
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Re: Orientations
« Reply #33 on: April 18, 2008, 09:58:16 PM »
I've only told about a half-dozen or so of my friends, and this was pretty recently. You really ought to feel good about telling ANYONE at your age (God, I sound so old...). When I was thirteen, I never could have done that.

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Re: Orientations
« Reply #34 on: April 18, 2008, 10:14:19 PM »
I've only told about a half-dozen or so of my friends, and this was pretty recently. You really ought to feel good about telling ANYONE at your age (God, I sound so old...). When I was thirteen, I never could have done that.

(you do.) You should have. I moved up here and showed everyone I don't take anything form anyone. When I was in sixth grade, (about three years ago) I had to stand up for myself more than I'd had to in Florida.
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Re: Orientations
« Reply #35 on: April 18, 2008, 10:56:49 PM »
EDIT: Fine I won't way a word.
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Re: Orientations
« Reply #36 on: April 18, 2008, 11:02:29 PM »
Be proud of who you are, because that is all you ever will be.

Forget the ignorance of the many and concentrate on the love and kinship of those you embrace.

Live life as you see fit and love every minute, so when the end is near and you look back, you can look back with pride of who are.

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Re: Orientations
« Reply #37 on: April 19, 2008, 06:53:59 AM »
I've only told about a half-dozen or so of my friends, and this was pretty recently. You really ought to feel good about telling ANYONE at your age (God, I sound so old...). When I was thirteen, I never could have done that.

Oh. Well, thanks for that. We were just talking about orientations really, and I asked, "What would you think i I was gay or bi?"
She replied she wouldnt mind, shed think it was pretty call. So (Becuase I was kinda despearte to tell SOMEONE in my likfe) I got her number and texted her, telling her.
So now I feel a lot better, bhecuase got that leaded me on to telling 2 other people afte her.
But I think it MIGHT have been esier for me. Since Im bi, or I texted not tell...
I dunno But thankd for the advice.

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Re: Orientations
« Reply #38 on: April 19, 2008, 12:01:26 PM »
EDIT: Fine I won't way a word.

Awe, Dis, I was kidding with you. Jeez, take a joke, eh? (sorry. didn't mean to make you feel bad or anything)
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Re: Orientations
« Reply #39 on: April 19, 2008, 12:59:57 PM »
EDIT: Fine I won't way a word.

Awe, Dis, I was kidding with you. Jeez, take a joke, eh? (sorry. didn't mean to make you feel bad or anything)

Its not your fault, it was mine. I was in a weird mood that day. Very depressed, one of those "Going to die alone and no matter what I do nobody accepts me for who I am" kinda days.

Anyways as what I wrote said basically, just be happy being yourself. No point worrying about it because in the end it won't matter. Sure it sounds cliche but it really is true. In high school I used to care what people thought about me but I see it doesnt matter now.

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« Reply #40 on: April 19, 2008, 01:42:06 PM »
Wow, you live a rough life.
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Re: Orientations
« Reply #41 on: April 19, 2008, 09:57:38 PM »
I believe that everyone's orientation is there own and there is nothing for others to get worked up about. With a few exceptions (Those who are inclined towards animals and/or inanimate objects), I'm happy for anyone who can/has found love in some way, shape or form.
I'm technically "straight" as I kinda find females somewhat attractive, but I am not attracted to anyone or anything enough to really have a true orientation, I guess. (But I have it easy compared to what many have to put up with, so you all have my sympathy.)
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« Reply #42 on: April 19, 2008, 10:55:09 PM »
I believe that everyone's orientation is there own and there is nothing for others to get worked up about. With a few exceptions (Those who are inclined towards animals and/or inanimate objects), I'm happy for anyone who can/has found love in some way, shape or form.
I'm technically "straight" as I kinda find females somewhat attractive, but I am not attracted to anyone or anything enough to really have a true orientation, I guess. (But I have it easy compared to what many have to put up with, so you all have my sympathy.)
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It gets easier the longer you've been one way or another. Besides, I'm kind of in between gay and bi. I like boys mostly but I'm also attracted to girls...It gets really confusing sometimes. But I stick with one for a while and if that don't work, I try the other. :P
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« Reply #43 on: April 25, 2008, 08:04:03 PM »
Sexuality can be a very hard thing to talk about with your friends, because you don't know how they are going to react.
I have had a major problem with that, because you never know what happens when/if you tell. I was wondering what the... I was doing when I told my friend that I'm in love him. God that was hard... Fortunately he didn't make a fuss about it, but I'm really glad that i got to tell him, because it is like a really heavy bolder that's removed from your chest when you do it.

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« Reply #44 on: April 25, 2008, 11:00:06 PM »
Sexuality can be a very hard thing to talk about with your friends, because you don't know how they are going to react.
I have had a major problem with that, because you never know what happens when/if you tell. I was wondering what the... I was doing when I told my friend that I'm in love him. God that was hard... Fortunately he didn't make a fuss about it, but I'm really glad that i got to tell him, because it is like a really heavy bolder that's removed from your chest when you do it.

Quite agreeable Vince. When I told my best friend I liked her, we decided to keep it a secret from her parents and mine so we could still spend the night at each other's houses. It's been better between us since I told her. Now I don't feel like someone's thrown my heart in a blender and put it on shred to a pulp. :P
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