So, through my exploration of the interwebs, I read something about how it's fairly common (subjective truth) for women to hit men and even perhaps socially acceptable because men hitting women is hands down unacceptable. Men should either walk away or take the beating "like a man". Personally i find this sexist AF. My question here is what is your opinion(s), dear reader(s), of whether it is ever acceptable for a man to hit a woman.
A story:
When I was 19 and in the Army, I was casually dating a woman who was insecure. She was 5'1", around 90 lbs at most and had Anemia. Namely, that if i had hit her, she would have bruised so severely that it would have looked far worse than it was. Well, we'd been out at a bar, i was sober, she was not. A friend and his girlfriend drove us both back home. She was in the backseat with me. She was talking shit to me under her breath so only I could hear it about how I was looking at women on the streets and wanted them and blah blah blah. She was obviously crazy but pulling over and kicking her out was not an option. Needless to say, later that night, when she was home (at a bed and breakfast i put her in btw, because she was homeless and in need), she passed out. i was dragging my stuff out of the place and she woke up. I told her i was leaving. Begging me not to go, i refused to listen to her. She realized i would not listen and she straightened up and punched me square in the face. i told her i would call the police. Never was i tempted to hit her. Not once. For one, I was 5'11" (ten inches taller than her), and 150 lbs. I weighed 60 lbs (27.22 KG) heavier. Needless to say, i could have put her in the ground if i wanted to merely on weight and size alone. Cops showed up, she claimed self defense. I ended up being allowed to return to base. Peers made fun of me saying "king got his ass kicked by a bitch" implying that he would have beat her up in return. I disagreed. I saw her once more but this was her sober. She apologized. I left. Never saw her again.
So to reiterate: Why is it acceptable (to some) socially for women to hit men? Disgusting. I dont care how long we've been together, 20 minutes of 20 years; i dont care if we have children together or not, if you hit me at all in anger, i will leave you. I will divorce you. You will pay the consequences.
I just want to know what the general opinion of people is in this topic.
https://www.quora.com/Why-can-women-hit-men-and-not-get-arrested