So, allegedly in approximately a year and a half or so to two years, maybe a bit longer, depending on how things move, I'm supposed to be moving out with the best-friend.
My problem now, comes from (as usual) my brother. I'll spare the fine details, since this isn't meant to be rant, but an advice post.
Basically, through some (seemingly) sneaky tactics, I've lost most, if not all, of my security shifts which my brother has conveniently picked up. Er... again, I'll spare the details.
Anyway, I'm trying to continue my path as an author in life, and while I'm happy to stay determined and punch through as far as I can, I would like to have some manner of at least part-time job that I can pick up to keep even a small income coming in. Especially in the event of moving.
Allegedly her brother may be able to help me job hunt, since he's already helped her. Which would be splendid. But I'd still need pay in the interim in order to... well... live even somewhat comfortably, as well as be ready for a move. Regardless of whether I end up with her, or if she ends up out here with me.
Now, with my brother doing all the shifts, and my father a full time teacher and now spending a lot of time with a satellite launch program, my mother who needs 24/7 medical care at home has nobody else. Unfortunately this means that I can't go out and work, barring the earliest hours of the morning. Unfortunately again, the only jobs I know of are the security ones which I no longer have available. Also, he plans on retiring in about a year if the district keeps changing the way it's heading, but we don't know. If that's the case, then I can pretty much do whatever. I just refuse to leave my mom, because that'd be bad for her AND my dad.
Does anyone have any thoughts on one of two things?
1) Any suggestions for work at home? Anywhere hiring that I can do without having to leave, since I essentially can't leave the house for maybe 80% of the day yet?
or
2) I heard that there are ways to get the state to pay a family member who's acting as a live-in nurse. Does anyone know anything about that? I haven't been able to find anything about it (California), and if that were the case, that would be a LOT easier to do until it's time later on.