Does anyone know why this happens? do you have it to??

[Ventus Fall]

Abuse is not only physical. It can be mental as well as other frms:

Whenyou look up the meaning of abuse, it says as follows.

abuse =

verb
1. use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse.
"the judge abused his power by imposing the fines"
synonyms:   misuse, misapply, misemploy, mishandle; More
2.
treat with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.
"riders who abuse their horses should be prosecuted"
synonyms:   mistreat, maltreat, ill-treat, treat badly, ill-use, misuse; More

noun
1.
the improper use of something.
"alcohol abuse"
synonyms:   misuse, misapplication, misemployment, mishandling; More
2.
cruel and violent treatment of a person or animal.
"a black eye and other signs of physical abuse"
synonyms:   mistreatment, maltreatment, ill treatment, ill use, misuse;

Summarise abuse is improper treatment and mishandling. Forcing someone to -for example- stay indoors never to see other people is also abuse. It doesn't use physical violence but it is preventing a human being to their laws and rights of doing what they want in order to delveop and grow.
What your mother is doing is taking away your right to develop and grow in a very active manner.
And when she does pass away, what then? You'd be incapable of surviving on your own, as it might be you'd be a lot older and not have the possibility to learn new things, or at least not so easily. You might even land on the streets, as you'd have nothing to get you a job.

He is an adult. You'r an adult. You both don't need your mother's  permission.
If you're still going to a school I assume you have a councellor or guide. Please talk to someone about this.

[kylethefox]

im homeschooled and internet is like the only contact i have with people in my daily life, sometimes i dont even have that, how can i get a job? i have no access to a car, and i still have a little bit of math to do in school, if i go against my mother shes going to starve me and throw me out of the house (shes thrown other family members out) then what would i do? ive taken extra work here, but its not enough for anything, ive get like 50¢ or less a day, most of the time i skip breakfast, sometimes even lunch because are lack of food (my mom goes out and eats at a resturant) so, i think im stuck here....

[Ventus Fall]

There is always a way

You can go out and offer services such as cleaning someone's car for a few bucks, doing that with a few each day. Doing garden-work. That kind of thing. Try to do things that require you to be outside to be safe. And keep someone's phonenumber closeby if you need to call for emergency-help.
You can also check and see if there is a newspaper business around if you can deliver newspapers.
Are you studying anything in particular right now? Maybe you can get an apprentiship. It might not pay or pay much, but it will give experience and opportunities.

Waitering (maybe not a good idea if your mum goes to restaurants to eat, unless you're sure which ones she goes to and avoid those), cleaning hotels/motels/other places.

How have your brothers and other family members got over her throwing them out of the house? I assume they managed to move on in some way?
I would suggest talking to them about it. How you'd like to move on to get a job. I'm sure some would understand.

Try to get out and get into contact with real-life people.

She throws you out? Fine, then you can't take care of her anymore anyways   There are always ways for you to change your situation. You're never stuck.

[MrRazot]

Hey Kyle


I saw back a bit that your brother said he'd take you. Let him take you.
You're allowed to see your siblings at least? #familytime
In terms of paying, it sounds like your brother is independent enough to have some cash. Maybe ask him to help you out a little more.


I suggest you hit up your brother, ask him out for a coffee or whatever. That gives you time to talk to him and away from your mum. From there you can talk to him about you wanting to go to the hospital, why you want to go to he hospital and you both share the same mother. He can help you with your mum


I hope that this helps.

[kylethefox]

thanks ventus and raz! i guess the biggest problem is that i cant drive, i wouldn't have this problem if i did, i also dont like it when people worry about me, so i haven't told people about this, ill probably talk to my brother about it tonight, yeah ventus, my siblings had jobs when they were kicked out, and so half of my family (there are ten of us, im third to youngest) moved out and all got a house together! its only five minutes away from my house by car, we go out to eat with them every monday, we all get along, so ill try to talk to my brother tonight, thanks for the help guys!

[MrRazot]

Honestly, it sounds like you're under the wrong roof

[kylethefox]

well ever since my dad moved out its been a disaster!

Post Merge: March 07, 2017, 04:52:39 AMso i talked to my brother and he talked to my dad, hes gonna take me! >w<

[Khaise Grey]

Drinking water and eating well is the only suggestion I can think of other then going to the doctor. If it is really a big problem then you shouldn't ignore it because something really bad could happen.

[Ventus Fall]

so i talked to my brother and he talked to my dad, hes gonna take me! >w<

Glad to hear it! Keep up updated on it?

[kylethefox]

i dont think it has to do with my diet, ive tried eating healthy but nothing changes, my dads taking me saturday, so wish me luck! >w<

[Khaise Grey]

Good luck man! 

[kylethefox]

Good luck man! 

thank you so much!