I can respect that, though. I won't use any derogatory words if you're actually insulted by them.
I just live in Colorado. Almost no one here gets insulted very much.
I am insulted by them but I will most likely do what I just did and at first say "please dont' call me that." that is until you say it to my face trying to insult me then I will say "I have to kindly ask you to leave." if (Hopefully) I don't get mad.
"Call me anything you like, but don't call me late for dinner" is a fairly common (in the US, anyway) joke that's used as a social ice-breaker in moments of potential awkwardness:
I've always heard it colloquially, as "You can call me anything but late for dinner." Meaning the person saying it (or being described, in your case) is not a formal person, worried about being called by a title or honorific, such as Sir or Doctor.