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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #210 on: May 05, 2016, 12:56:07 AM »
If my current "relationship" fails I will not be looking or be interested in any one at all as a partner, I don't see a need for that in my life. The only reason why its working with my mate is because we are best friends just on a deeper level, were both aromantic  for one but she can love, where as I can not.
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #211 on: May 05, 2016, 01:02:46 AM »
I just ended a 6 year relationship recently and I thought I wouldn't be able to function since I was used to that companionship for so long... Funny thing is, I'm doing fine and it's given me time to figure out who I am and explore my hopes and dreams. I'm not in a rush to get romantically involved or seeking it because if it happens, it will happen on its own accord.
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #212 on: May 05, 2016, 01:48:07 AM »
My boyfriend messaged me on facebook and I didn't read the message for like half a year.  Then when I read it and replied 6 months later, he still wanted to talk XD

We've been together almost 2 years now.

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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #213 on: May 05, 2016, 02:37:42 AM »
Wow that's absentmindedness at it's best.
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #214 on: May 05, 2016, 03:11:00 AM »
Heh :p I haven't actually friended my boyfriend on Facebook yet. I don't use mine much at all so I keep forgetting to do it. He also literally has ten times the amount of friends I have on there X3
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #215 on: May 05, 2016, 10:59:41 PM »
Styxx, have you ever heard of queerplatonic relationships? That might be something you want to look into.

I'm probably being a bit ignorant, but isn't that kind of just friendship or having a companion?
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #216 on: May 06, 2016, 08:42:39 AM »
Styxx, have you ever heard of queerplatonic relationships? That might be something you want to look into.

I'm probably being a bit ignorant, but isn't that kind of just friendship or having a companion?


I've never even heard of that but it's a good guess I'm assuming.


I just call my close friends my platonic heterosexual life mates :P my close gay friends would be my platonic homosexual life mates lol
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #217 on: May 06, 2016, 11:23:21 AM »
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #218 on: May 18, 2016, 02:17:10 AM »
Ah relationships. Wonderful when they work and wound full  when they don't. Been in two in my long years and while they where nice while they lasted I find myself not really caring to get into another really. All that work and investment being swiped off the table like so many card towers by an unruly kitten takes a lot out of you. But alas you can't enjoy the sweet rice crispy treats life has to offer if you don't risk getting burned by the stove. I say just be yourself and get out there. Some one will notice and if things go well what will be will be and what will not, Will not.

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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #219 on: May 26, 2016, 09:24:22 PM »
.... but I'm bi
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #220 on: May 26, 2016, 09:35:35 PM »
*is pansexual* theres this really cute trans boy at my school and hes really funny...but i feel kinda bad cuz i already have a relationship with is a really good one so now i feel like a bad person
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #221 on: May 26, 2016, 10:52:03 PM »
I'm probably being a bit ignorant, but isn't that kind of just friendship or having a companion?

Good thing I actually made notes about that...

A queerplatonic relationship is a deep emotional bond that goes beyond what people consider to be just friends. The commitment, intimacy and emotional bond is often comparable to that of a romantic relationship, but are not considered romantic to those involved. To the outside it can be seen as a close friendship, a romantic relationship or somewhere in-between. The people involved can see each other as partners, mates, a couple etc.

That's the definition I got out of it at least.

Interesting. I am however intrigued by the name... xD

The thing is, she loves me more then a deep connection. So on her side its a romantic relationship, she also finds my compassion as a way of showing me loving her. She put it in a way that makes sense to others but falls short like always to me. I see how you can see that on my side.


Edit: After doing some reading into this subject I can honestly say that you are right michen. You sir are a scholar and a gentleman. ^_^
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #222 on: May 27, 2016, 05:14:17 AM »
Guess I should lurk one the aro community my self my girlfriend even agrees and we don't like labels
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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #223 on: May 28, 2016, 02:05:09 AM »
I have never dated, I'm not pretty and I'm too quiet so people don't notice me.
And whenever I am flirted with by a man, I get too terrified to really say anything back.
I wouldn't mind seeing someone, it's just that I'm too dull. My life isn't going anywhere so I have decided to not even bother trying.

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Re: Relationships?
« Reply #224 on: May 28, 2016, 02:06:39 AM »
I am in this relationship where I don't want to be in but yet: I am in one.

No idea how I am going to end it

 

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