Are you ok with being a girl? Or a very feminine male? And be a friend of the girl who doesn't think she is right for the bat. You know have some sort of different sides and peer pressure of different kinds on them. Like the bat wants to go with the girl but her friends keep shying him away. And then perhaps the bat finally stops but then after a few days they meet at someplace that shows they have the same interest (like a convention) and they meet alone with no friends and they hit right off? Or is that too much?