Places you don't normally look means exactly that.
Go to something you wouldn't ordinarily look at, maybe not a furmeet, maybe say, if your interest in video games, join a gaming club, if you're interested in technology, see if there's a place for that. Maybe go to clubs or something, who knows
Also, just because someone doesn't ask to meet you in real life doesn't mean they don't like you, often asking to meet someone in real life can be a nervous experience, some people just don't want to ask it because they don't know how you'd react to that. Either way, the main thing is also, you don't belong "instantly". There is no group that you associate with and instantly think "this is the one". No, it takes time, it takes commitment. Sure, you may have to drag some people by the arm to go out with you the first couple of weeks, but sooner or later, they'll start to like you and, sooner or later, will start become really, really good friends with you. To be a good friend you need to have trust, you need to know about each other and you need to feel comfortable with each other and all those things take time. So it takes a while, but if you stick to one group of people, the people you like most, and dedicate yourself to them and going out to them, you might find you actually belong.
Hope that helps