I can't believe this...

[Taco <3]

My mom took my phone. So now I have to wait until she goes through it before she calls me crazy for being a fur..... I'm scared.... It's' not only the furry thing, but everything...... I don't want her to find out about the mate i had....I don't want her to find out about me and my exes... I don't want her to know because I'm afraid she'll judge me.... And deem me insane...

[Black-Horse]

I dont want mine to find out either... That sucks, Im sorry, but I hope you best luck.

[Pea]

If she was any understanding then she won't consider you crazy or insane. Just different. Kids are always different.

[Taco <3]

She just won't understand..... She doesn't usually.....

[Kaprika]

im curious as to how she can find out all that from looking at your phone..id ASSUME that you would clear youre txts fors safety precautions.
 
if you were that anxious and if she has that kinda judgementality, why not take those precautions

[Taco <3]

I usually do...but a friend of mine took my phone so i didnt get it back until right before we started fighting.....and she would know because my email, twitter, and texts are on there

[icy wolf]

if it comes up try explain it to your parents about what a furry is. show them fan boy confessionals, if shes understanding then she will accept it, there might be some weird questions because of all the negative media. try telling her that's a stereotype of what a furry is. how dose she feel about you dating ?

[Taco <3]

she's fine with it as long as she knows about it....

[Pea]

See. It wasn't as bad as you expected 

[Taco <3]

she hasn't talked to me about it...i was just answering icy's question about dating

[icy wolf]

oh so why would you of hidden it from her?

[Black-Horse]

Mine Judges things easily and dont lisen

[Taco <3]

Because i haven't told her.....i don't want to  have to explain to her what a fur really is...she'll just think it's some weird phase

[icy wolf]

oh ok is she open minded ? how she takeing it ? good or bad?

[Alice The Necrofox]

Its important to keep your cool. Freaking out won't help you in this situation. Just wait to see what she says, and if she starts freaking out, be the calm one of the both of you. If you don't freak out too, then she will have to come down from her freakout to talk to you. Just keep calm. She probably won't have a problem with it if you calmly explain to her what it is all about.
Now from a mother's perspective, just putting myself in your mother's shoes for a second, if she didn't know you had all of these exes and your mate, then she might freak out about that. Its natural. But again, if you stay calm she will have to calm down to talk to you.


And who knows, it could be she could just hand your your phone back and say, "nothin weird on here "
Best case scenario other than her not looking through your phone.