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What to do in this situation?
« on: September 30, 2011, 09:37:12 AM »
Four hours ago my mother cried on my shoulder. I've let her do this before, but this time was weird. I felt almost no emotion while she was crying. All I could get myself to do was hug her tight, give her gentle rubs on her back, and feel a very slight moment of anger at her boyfriend. Otherwise I was a completely blank shell. I had no clue what to do. She eventually had to go to bed so I told her I loved her, gave her a kiss on the cheek, turned out her bedroom lights and left.


What is a son suppose to do when his mother cries on her shoulder? I don't feel comfortable doing that, but I feel like it's my duty to. She's got no one now except for me and my brother. Me being the oldest makes me the man of the house now. A lot of responsibility for someone as irresponsible as me....
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Re: What to do in this situation?
« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2011, 02:35:36 PM »
All she needed was probably exactly what you did for her. Just someone to be there.
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Re: What to do in this situation?
« Reply #2 on: October 01, 2011, 05:39:52 AM »
Looking back, that did seem like the best and only thing to do. Thanks WZ. It's just very confusing to have to hold your own mother while she cries =\
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Re: What to do in this situation?
« Reply #3 on: October 02, 2011, 10:33:32 PM »
Ive been through the same exact situation, I didnt care too much like you, and I did confort her. But her problem was about something else.. But ya, just be there for her, ok.. same way you would for a mate, only differently lol
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Re: What to do in this situation?
« Reply #4 on: October 03, 2011, 03:59:07 AM »
try and ask her if she wants to talk about it, it might help her get what ever is causeing it off her mind or maker her feel better.
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Re: What to do in this situation?
« Reply #5 on: October 03, 2011, 04:47:53 AM »
I've done that. She isn't very open about her problems and I don't press on the matter.
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