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Author Topic: it only take one person :(  (Read 1201 times)

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Offline shadowfox

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Re: it only take one person :(
« Reply #15 on: December 08, 2010, 01:16:07 AM »
yeah... maybe.... i'm just gunna TRY and forget the whole thing..... maybe just ignore him completely........

thx iKero

still doesn't help me forgive him... but at least i feel a little better about it >.<

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Re: it only take one person :(
« Reply #16 on: December 08, 2010, 02:31:38 AM »
Well sometimes friends (or **********) like to remind you of your past. If they're not entirely oblivious or just ********, then that makes them a ****. I'm sorry to hear about this. I know how hard things can be to forget or come to terms with. In times like these it's nice to roll up a fat one and listen to beats to get your mind off of things and chill out. Invite some (real) friends over and hang out. Sucking apologies out of these sort of people can be difficult and, usually, it isn't worth the effort. You might get one they don't mean or feel like they'll give you because you asked for it.

It is almost impossible to forget the things you've done or that have happened. The best I can tell you is to look forward to the future and all the great things it holds. Look forward, not back. Live in the moment and learn from mistakes, and most of all, be the better man. Good luck to you, shadowfox. I hope things turn out for the best.  

Try to be careful with your words.
Some words could be considered a insult or disrespectful when put in certain contexts.
Just be a bit more concious of what you say please.
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« Last Edit: December 08, 2010, 01:17:17 PM by iKero-chuâ„¢ »
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Re: it only take one person :(
« Reply #17 on: December 11, 2010, 03:07:14 PM »
My familys motto has always been "People are stupid". And dont take that in the wrong context that includes my family :p.  But in a lot of way its true. People do stupid things all the time and I'm sure he didn't mean to actually hurt you or bring up bad feelings, he just wasnt thinkinh before he spoke.

As for letting it go, sometimes it's hard to do. *Hugs shadow* but try not to let it bother you too greatly and have some fun! ^.=.^
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Re: it only take one person :(
« Reply #18 on: December 15, 2010, 08:42:46 PM »
Sometimes you have to make the hard decision of whether a friend / acquaintance is worth the effort and upset, or whether it's better just to block and delete them and be happier without them..
This person doesn't seem to be good for your depression or your self esteem..
Of course its your decision completely, but in my opinion, you don't need people like that in your life..
If you surround yourself with people that make you happy your depression will, in time, get a lot better..
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