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Offline Kodachi Devil

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it's been on my mind...
« on: November 19, 2010, 03:13:43 AM »
Well yeah, this has been on my mind a while. You guys have been there for me when I talk about being picked on n shiz, and I thank you for that, but this has just been on my mind. School System.
I mean, I went to my guidence counceler about a lot of the shiz that goes on at school (especially something involving two kids in some extremeist religious group). and she says that the 'first step in any situation is to give em a good talking to and find out WHY they did that'.

I'm like. "WOAH. day in and day out ive been harrassed and practically forced to convert my religion that i don't even KNOW and you think the best thing to do is talk about it? Uh. No."
And so i tell her about this kid thats been doing one thing every day i have gym. Calls me a bad name, and shoves me off the bleachers.
Guidence Counseler: well first I'm gonna have to talk to him and find out why he did that.
Me: Does it matter? I have a HUGE bruise on my back HOW IS THAT TALKABLE?
Guidence Counseler: well it's always the first step if he does it again tell me.


So yeah. School Systems are, just....theyre just amazing aren't they? At this point I don't quite care about the jerks. I care about what the school does about it.
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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2010, 03:30:45 AM »
I hate to say it but, the guidence counceler is doing what she can. She must put her own opinions aside, and become neutral.... Think of it like this. what if someone went to her about you, said you were beating them up, harassing them, and doing all kinds of stuff. Even though you are not. Would it then be viable to take action agenst you? Im not saying what they are doing is right. But before a school can take action, they need the whole story.... Or see what your telling them is happening.  I can't say there will be justice in the end... But you can hope for the best

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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2010, 03:38:33 AM »
I find a good way to stop an attacker is a loud and inhumanly demonic sounding roar.  I once had a girl on a bus who'd keep saying I was looking at porn and I got really frustrated with her.  One day I snap, stand up and really roar at her, she shuts up for the rest of the time I spent at that school.  It works by making them fear you, as noise relates to strength. Try it, even a bunny can do it. :3
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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2010, 03:45:24 AM »
Well heres a shortlist of viable options. Pay attention, I do not endorse any of them, but have used them all to varying success (pay attention to the situation at hand).

If it's conversion their trying for, lie to them. Say you converted to something more reclusive- or even something extreemely disturbing, like the cult of Satan. (Warning: this may work against you.)

Outwit them.

Convert THEM.

The yelling works, but I prefer a more psychotic approach. Act like your mentally imbalanced: combine screaming, crying, uncontrollable laughing, etc. to make one hell of an intimidation scare. Do not do this in a public place.

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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #4 on: November 19, 2010, 05:16:51 AM »
If theyre physically hurting you (pushing off the bleachers) and the school doesnt do anything, you should the police involved. Any emotional/psychological pain, I recommend to put it past you. Once youre out of school, you'll never see them again.

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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #5 on: November 19, 2010, 12:03:01 PM »
thankies thankies you guys.
And Air that's a nice point. I mean the thing is she made it sound like she'd just ask them to stop? I mean how many times do you ask a kid to stop doing something, and they actually STOP?

As for Macid, the police.....isn't that a bit rough?
Either way I brought this up because since i'm stuck at home I had time to think about it more clearly.

Aoren, Transferring is outta my league  :o. My parents wouldn't do that because I go to like the ONE public high school in my area. everything else costs money.
and she owes my band teacher like $150. So can't just run out on that.

And Zombie, your story made me laugh  ^_^. Roaring = Victory!

Thanks for your help guys, it means a lot  :3
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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #6 on: November 20, 2010, 04:21:36 AM »
Well heres a shortlist of viable options. Pay attention, I do not endorse any of them, but have used them all to varying success (pay attention to the situation at hand).

If it's conversion their trying for, lie to them. Say you converted to something more reclusive- or even something extreemely disturbing, like the cult of Satan. (Warning: this may work against you.)

Outwit them.

Convert THEM.

The yelling works, but I prefer a more psychotic approach. Act like your mentally imbalanced: combine screaming, crying, uncontrollable laughing, etc. to make one hell of an intimidation scare. Do not do this in a public place.

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But anyway, you should just go with the councilor. It might be annoying having to have her talk to everyone but if it might make things better just go with it.

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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2010, 01:40:08 PM »
I would of pressed charges on the kid if he gave me a bruise from pushing me off.

Next time your at the guidance counselor show her the bruise and tell your not afraid to press charges against the school for not protecting you against bullying.
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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2010, 08:14:53 PM »
press charges? O___O.
how does one go about doing that!?
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Re: it's been on my mind...
« Reply #9 on: November 27, 2010, 07:23:47 AM »
Well, at the moment you would just threaten, after that, its between you and the lawyer of your choice.
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