Sadly that's just the way of things. We're all about "me, me, me!" And lose our quiet dignity in doing so.
I have depression, have dealt with it and social anxiety for a number of years. If you want help or to talk/vent feel free to message.
I know how stifling and frustrating it can be, especially when there are those who take advantage of illness and when it seems like
all help is a million miles away.