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I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« on: March 09, 2015, 10:13:08 PM »
I don't know why but lately I've been having horrible thoughts and nightmares about my loved ones leaving me with hatred, or incidents happening to them. I mean I try reading, drawing, watching t.v to get it out of my head but I can't stop thinking of horrible thoughts it's been making me depressed and I have no clue what to do. I don't know what's making me feel like this...

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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #1 on: March 09, 2015, 10:40:04 PM »
While i may not have had the same thoughts or dreams as you, i think i have felt something similar. For a very long time i have had nightmares, where i have been bullied, left alone, or have everyone i love die. I have considered suicide and many other bad things that i would rather not talk about. Most of it i think comes from my own life experiences. I have been bullied, chased, beaten and left alone on so many accounts i lost track. However i remeber each one so vividly it's like it happened yesterday and sometimes my mind will wander back i feel these horrible events again and again. Which brings me to my point. I'm no therapist, but my best guess is that maybe there is something that has happened in your life that has made you think this way. Or possibly you are feeling this way because of your lifestyle. Unfortunalty i don't know you personally or anything about you, so i can only take guesses based on what you have said so far. My suggestion however is to think back and figure out whatever has made you feel this way, that is normally the first step to solving something like this.
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I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #2 on: March 09, 2015, 11:06:51 PM »
Thanks, I'll be sure to be think about it hopefully I can find what's bothering me so much and slowly just get these bad thoughts out of my head
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2015, 11:10:52 PM »
I really do hope you feel better. I've had a lot of fun roleplaying with you and i don't like hearing that you feel this way. In fact i don't like hearing when any of you guys are feeling sad.
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #4 on: March 09, 2015, 11:11:17 PM »
*hug* if you ever need someone to personally talk to about it im here
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i would reccomend not panicking
dinking tea
watching MLP
listening to music
youtube
reading
um......
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a councelor
i really hope this helps
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #5 on: March 09, 2015, 11:15:04 PM »
 Same here, I hate when anyone around me or that I know of is down.
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #6 on: March 09, 2015, 11:17:36 PM »
Your welcome. Let me know or anyone you trust know if you feel better or worse. Either way we will be here for you.
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #7 on: March 12, 2015, 02:40:46 AM »
Zaida, pm me please. I may be able to help, as I've experienced plenty of things in my life... A lot I don't like to talk about... But if it helps you,I'm will tell you. ^_^
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2015, 03:43:40 AM »
*hugs* im here to talk and yes talk to caitey they have helped me bofore same as fen he has helped me alot and he is a good person
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Re: I'm Scared, Sad, confused
« Reply #9 on: March 13, 2015, 12:31:27 PM »
I advise talking to a trained professional, because they would know best as to how to help you.
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