1st.. oh good lord, all the editing makes my post colorful.
Sorry, if I did put curse words in there, I didnt mean to. I just copied and pasted it from another location, and thought I had at least edited out or substituted words in there for the cursing. Plus, i was angry and was seeing red at the time I posted it, so .. I might not have seen them at all.
2nd.. I found out that my lovely sister in law is really losing her mind.
She has three children of her own. Two boys and one girl (girls in the middle age wise). I guess this week they all had fevers (her youngest son is barely 4 months old), they all had ear infections, and they all were either puking or coughing or being sick in general.
So.. she took them to the urgent care, which of course, any mother would do. But the day after, she decides to go down to the city, which is an hour drive, in rainy, icy conditions, WITH her sick children, and run around with this married man that she thought was the father of her newest child.
Seriously. She took her children out into the weather so she could get a piece.
This just.. enrages me on a motherly level.

What kind of mother would sacrifice her own childrens health just to see a boyfriend, that happens to be married?
And as I was talking to my MIL (mom in law), she told me that she had bought right into my SIL (sis in law), crap, and all the lies. and that she was sorry. They came by the birthday and everything, and I really was only angry at SIL instead of both of them.
*growls*
But, we were talking, and we both believe that shes got some serious mental issues that are cropping up. Shes irresponsable, she doesnt take care of her kids and puts them in danger, she puts them in enviornments that are hazardous to their mental health and well being, and she usually just does whatever SHE wants to do. Its all about HER. Not her children.
So we both think shes going crazy.
I mean, I knew her back in high school a few years back and she was NEVER like this. She had more common sense and more goals and aspirations than any one of my circle of friends ever had. We figured she was the one to become the high end, money making CEO of some big butted company up in like, New York or something.
*shakes head*
But on another note.
Birthday was great. My son, Haydon, had a great time, he ate all the frosting off of the cake and ate all his ice cream, got a couple huge toys with bunches of cars.
And because he likes that Cars movie, with "lightning mcqueen" in it, he probably has five or six of those cars running around my house now.

Hes a great kid, I love him and hes got his own weird quirks, but.. we had a good time.
He did get sick last night, nasty tummy while my friends and I were gaming... and that was hilarious in its own right when he puked down my shirt and arm, I hear a resounding "oh god ewwwwwwwwwwww" from the living room.
Hes better now though, believe he got over the worst of it and is now running around the bedroom at the moment when he should be in bed lol.
And im not really mad at SIL anymore. I learned a while back when i went through what im calling my 'religious phase" that being angry and revengeful over petty stuff isnt worth it and causes me to bite my nails and stress out too much.
Im angry at the fact she lied, but not at her.
I even got her kids some xmas gifts with the little money my grandmother sent us in the mail along with the cards and ornaments for the kids.
But, yeah im also happy that Jones, my big fat orange cat is huge enough to block the santa gifts I got earlier today, cause theyre sitting in front of the coat closet in the living room, in walmart bags.
Have a Happy Christmas and Merry New Years guys!