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((ok, I stole the picture, sorry))
My memory is rather random so I can forgot some parts...
So... I joined the fandom furry almost 3 years ago, August 21st 2009, thanks to another dragon. I knew him in a forum of art with dragons, elves and such. One day, he were bad, and I wanted to help him ((like I don't know how many persons... but I don't think I will say everything, it will be too long...)) After speaking about his love of dragons... he finally show me furaffinity. I registered and started to discover by myself... and that was what I was looking for... Of course, I was already easily nervous, and had some difficult to do the first step. So I tried to fav some arts, write comment and such... until I saw a picture of fursuits.
o.o awww... want! I contacted the one who posted them... and by luck, it was a French! o.o he was the admin of the French furry forum, so he shown me it, and I registered. I asked some questions, he answered me, so I found how to meet other furs... a furmeet! In belgium, the next week! ((the Belgium is the furthest country stuck to the France, from where I live)), but I don't care, I registered. And since this moment, each time during the week end and during the vacation, when there was a furmeet, I go! And I was lucky, my step father work in trains, so I had free train! ^-^
There aren't any furmeet during the vacation? Ok, I pick several furs I see and which interest me and asked them to see them irl. I don't know how many I asked.
I spnt more or less good time with them, though sometime it was... well... I heard he was a very cuddly person, but... *sigh* ._. even if I gently tapped his shoulder, rubbed his back and such... but nothing... T.T
well... after several months, I did several furmeets, saw several furs several times, tried several time to approach them, tried to hug them and such... but no... I still felt none were really interested by me, with a few exception... which didn't really last. Yes, I got some friends here and there, but not more than a few months. I also got 3 loves... 2 of them left me alone for someone else... the last one, it was... special.
Then I found someone... I fell in love... I'm sure he loved me, even if he didn't was to mate with me yet. It was the only fur I went to his home twice.
But... I did my last furmeet with him... and someone also approached him. he seemed nice at the beginning, but I felt several time he tried to take my place... it upsetted me, my friend didn't like it and finally... well... it was my last time I did a furmeet. He left me alone... of course I didn't have any real friend... I got my worse part of my depression of my life...
Thanks to some drugs, I finally survived... even if I sometime spend bad time, I have bad thought and such... sometime, it was more standable.
Not sure if it was before or after... but around this moment, I also stopped the high school. I couldn't continue... I was as alone, people loved to make fun of me I still don't know why... *sighs...* I think that last sentence resumed my whole life in school.
Well, I continued to surf on furaffinity over here and there... I felt infinitely shier... so it was mostly some favs, I commented very rarely. ((anyway, the last ones I did never got any answer, except some specials))
Then, I found F-List. For those who don't know what is it, it's a chat for RPing. ((a little part clean, a good part... well...)) then I registered.
At this moment, I have some thought of nostalgia... I just had the level in English like anyone who just did it during school, without really big interest, then nothing more. I registered... ho, it's my account's first birthday in a few days.
then it was more or less the same story. I gone to the chat, had some difficult to do my first steps ((a little harder than furaffinity though...)) but finally started to do some rps, having a few of friends here or there, got a mistress... I don't feel good to write again the same story, so I will just resume: I felt that I quickly lost the interests from others, despite all my tries to get my group of friends. Ho, yes, I saw one in a chat, and really wanted to join! ((my mistress was a very good friend of one of them)), and tried to speak with this one... this one... then this one...
2 of them quickly finally disliked me... the last one was really too shy... even more than me. So I always wondered how he was able to join a group if he is that shy... I finally guessed that my shyness CAN'T be my problem. I don't know how, it seems that some of thoses I tried to befriend with got really annoyed of my tries and complained against me... I got an advertisement.
Then I tried this site... this one... this other... like pounced and such... then I reached thefurryforum at the same time as several others and found this one more promising, so... I gave it a try.
Quick resume about my life before the furry: I was born with some mental problems, I was hyperactive, hard ((forgot the exact word in French... can't translate what I want to say correctly in English))... with crazy parents... (mostly my father, my mother can be okay)) I didn't go at school for 2 years because of my problem and my father's owns ((I will keep them for now...)), then I went to school until college, I went to a special college first, then did the same class in another one, never really being able to make some friends, so most of the time, I was alone. After my second years in college, I calmed a lot and became easy and started to be very nice with everyone. Though I think ((first time someone told me it: last year of high school!)) I can be sometime aggressive when I speak... but really non intentionally ((didn't mean to))
Well... now I'm in my last year of study before moving to USA, I have still a few of friend here and there, but I'm still looking for my tight group of friends... even if it's harder and harder...
And don't say "focus on your current friend instead of keeping looking for your group!" I always speak with them when I can, but they always finally stopped to reply... stopped to speak with me...
There... I hope I'm enough understandable.