Need help!! I'm so confused!!!

[Wolface]

well... I... I ur... I had a girl friend for nearly 11 months now.

and I'm starting to think that... would it be better if we are just best friends... =s

but I think I've got in to it way too far. I don't know what to do... I love her, but.... I don't know really what to do. I don't want to hurt her feelings, 'cause she just said that she don't want us to broke up in any ways 'cause she loves me so much. :lovestruck4:

What am I going to do. :th_PyongLlora:

Pls help me...

[Goblin Cat 😸]

Do what you have to do.. Tell her that you feel you would better if you were just friends. Explain that you fell into something you were unsure about and that you've realized that it's made you a bit uncomfortable. If you feel you need to wait, tell her... But if you hide it you're only going to be miserable and lead her on. The quicker you tell her, the better because if you wait, she'll figure it out and it will hurt worse than if you actually told her.

[Wolface]

Thank you RigorMortis, You helped a lot, I'll try what you suggested 

any1 have more advices for me ?

[Goblin Cat 😸]

No problem. Best of luck to you, as I know it can't be easy.  

[Xleena]

Well, you're certainly between a rock and a hard place!

If you're unsure about your feelings for her, it may be good for you to have a conversation with her, allowing each other to ask questions and talk about issues that might be making you feel that you don't feel the same way (e.g she says things that hurts your feelings).

My advice is that you don't end it before you have a proper conversation about it and are sure that you want this. She might be hurt now, but she'll appreciate it in the long term

[Dan Witty]

Definitely speak with her about this, and let her know your feelings. Relationships must be mutual to work. Decide how to come to terms with this together, no matter what happens be the friend she always had, and don't make yourself or her to feel as if they are being obligated to be something you are not for each other, a true friendship will see it through.

[Wolface]

Well, you're certainly between a rock and a hard place!

If you're unsure about your feelings for her, it may be good for you to have a conversation with her, allowing each other to ask questions and talk about issues that might be making you feel that you don't feel the same way (e.g she says things that hurts your feelings).

My advice is that you don't end it before you have a proper conversation about it and are sure that you want this. She might be hurt now, but she'll appreciate it in the long term

Thanks ALOT!!
This sounds like a very good idea 

Post Merge: May 27, 2009, 10:31:32 AM

Definitely speak with her about this, and let her know your feelings. Relationships must be mutual to work. Decide how to come to terms with this together, no matter what happens be the friend she always had, and don't make yourself or her to feel as if they are being obligated to be something you are not for each other, a true friendship will see it through.

Thank you

You make me feel better. :th_Pyong-1:

[White Wolf Guardian]

Well I know you asked me for help, but you know I'm not a genius or anything when it comes to finding a girlfriend x.x.

However, it's all about just going out a talking to all kinds of people, I didn't care if they were half-dead, as long as they had a great personality and were understanding of my qualities. I met my girlfriend by pure chance however, we were both involved with an occult and then when it backfired we both stood clear and we're lucky to be still standing.

I met her through one of the leaders, somewhere along the way I discussed with her what I and her thought about the organization and obviously it was all bad, so we finally confronted the leaders and ended things there at which point a few days afterward the leaders got nervous and decided to break it up calling the whole thing a huge "game" where they irresponsibly let several people die because they lied to them and the people trying to accomplish their dreams had been failed again but by the only people they thought they could ever trust... in effect some were already unstable and unfortunately committed suicide because they thought they just couldn't handle their harsh realities any longer. Me and 3 others, 1 of which I believe to be gone now... are all that's left. Me and my girlfriend, we've been through a lot, and I've been unappreciative of that often times, but I always come back to her in the end. There could be better or worse girls out there for me, but I'm happy with who she is and I'm settled down. Me and her are going to stay together hopefully forever, with my dearest babe Straywolf :-*

[Wolface]

Oh my... That's a good story, I think it's some how... romantic. :-*

Thank you for sharing the story.  :th_Pyong-1:

[iKero-chu™]

Yeah, just be straight honest.
Its the best policy.
(:

[Wolface]

thanks alot Kero.  :upupdi3:

[iKero-chu™]

thanks alot Kero.  :upupdi3:

No problem.
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