I thought this was gonna be a serious vent style topic lmao.
Was not expecting this but
About choosing a fursona name. It's completely up to you! You can go to a random name picker, or even use your username (0nefang)
Heck, I understand your pain of choosing fursona names. Heck, two of the five of my fursonas don't have a name lol.
And for the gender, it's also up to you. You can even let it remain genderless if you would like. Do what suits you. You don't need to make your fursona the same gender as you.
Also woah, khajilts are cool. Never seen those before.