Ah, it's different in my culture. We don't have the Great Spirit like the tribes south of me do.
But if you're serious about finding your totem, you could try to connect with a shaman, if there's one in your area. Your friend may be able to help you with that. Also, your totem isn't something you should be concerned about right now, they're given when a person reaches maturity, at least in my tribe they do.
I'm Inupiat Eskimo, in case you were wondering.