I kinda knew I am loner for as long as I could then remember, just shrugged it off simply because I was content. It was up recently that I'm beginning to feel the effects of being lonely. I'm certain it began with first gf. We first met at a Christian church camp, when I was 13. My first thought was something similar along the fact I was gonna spend a lot of time with her. We did. She gave me her number the end of the church experience, but she broke up with me shortly after, was devastated. Hooked up again a year later, but broke up a year later. It was a on and off kind of thing. The last time we dated, I thought we'd be a sure thing. But she wanted something search for "something". You know the rest. The weird thing was I recovered quick. I guess her breaking up with me so much soften the blow in the end or something. It was near the end my high school when she broke up with me. I kinda failed school, got a job shortly after and decided to focus on my life. I was just wondering around aimlessly for 2 years, before i met my 2nd girlfriend. We really did get along well, but I freaked myself out by thinking too much. I know it's mainly because i was avoiding heart ache in the long run, mine or hers? Doesn't matter now. It's been two years, still working myself(kinda sucked too because it felt like it went by so fast). I decided try again, not going so well. I'm still socially awkward. Tried online, some place are free some paid(never paid for them I got bills to pay!). I try to go with honesty. Months go by without a single reply. I mean, I'm not ugly inside or out. Nor an I saying I'm perfect because who is? Is my standards too high? No, but I will say that I do have to feel attracted to them physically (I blame basic human nature.). I'm basically a non-prejudiced person, I praise and insult everyone with equal value. Point is I can wait patiently, but you can only wait for so long. Is this a pity rant? Sort of, but that's part of human nature. We are a sociable species, it's proven we die if we are alone. Babies must have human interaction or they die. People gone insane from isolation, ie. Only two fears in my life, family is dead following by being alone. Yea I got friends to hang out with but everyone got their on life to live, their own dreams to full fill. I got them too, one of them is to raise a family. Not happening any time soon..... so you can see part of my problem. The other half I don't feel like getting into. I honestly don't know what to do. Mainly because I just go where life takes me, not now, but soon. I never thought up ahead because I'm always so caught up right now.