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Offline Darkothebat

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I feel very depressed :(
« on: March 19, 2013, 01:41:10 AM »
 :( people tell me to kill myself all the time and call me furfag and its bringing me down

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #1 on: March 19, 2013, 01:55:29 AM »
Well, keep in mind that while you may be a "furfag" you're not as intellectually and emotionally stunted as those that refer to you as such.  While you'll most likely end up in a functional relationship, they will be the people with failed dreams who take their frustration with life on their children and or spouse, much as they are doing with you.  Just shrug it off and don't let them win.  It's not as easy as in making it out to be, but it will help.  Just love yourself, and ignore those who project their  self hatred upon you.  Remember, furries are a community of people who love each other. Haters hate everyone, including each other.

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #2 on: March 19, 2013, 02:08:20 AM »
Thankyou i am so lucky to be in such a loving community of people who care and appreciate me  :3

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2013, 02:19:21 AM »
Some people just want to watch the world learn.

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2013, 07:33:54 AM »
Sigh. I've struggled with depression for a long time too. It gets hard to deal with when people are outright after you, but you have to remind yourself that they are merely having issues themselves. There's nothing 'wrong' about you, and you should in no way take their words as the truth. Besides that, try to spend as much of your time as you can with people that do care for you. I met a friend from canada in a game, and ended up on the computer nearly always talking to him. For me, that helped alot. In the same way, forums helped me out too, though I was on different forums at the time.
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2013, 02:00:53 PM »
Ignore them but in your head its ok to be yelling "**censor** you you Judgemental PRICK!! >:( X3     But don't say any thing in real life ignore and some not all will go away. Some wont stop till they see you cry. Then you say how much of a immature shit they are being. That's my thoughts
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2013, 12:14:19 AM »
There's nothing wrong about being a furry just like it's nothing wrong about liking tea or cats or whatever. It's hobby and/or lifestyle with every other hobbies and lifestyles, and people who don't like it have the problem, not you.
It seems that many furries have some kind of depression. At least we can share our experiments and thoughts and support each other.
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #7 on: May 09, 2013, 02:34:40 AM »
I actually about cried hearing that  :'(  I've been down that road... It's hard. Well, I'm here to support you and all other members of the community. People are just ignorant, after all. It's basic human nature to destroy what one doesn't understand... Once again I wish you better luck with your troubles, and don't EVER let anyone tear you down!
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #8 on: May 09, 2013, 02:38:01 AM »
If I see some thing I don't understand then I will either be afraid or I will want to learn more about it.
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Space is a place I can't wait to go to. All the time in reality. And yet I long for the end, not because I want it to end, but because I'm curious of how this world ends and where all these souls go to when they breath no more. But till then I'll be having the time of my life! :)

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #9 on: May 09, 2013, 02:39:36 AM »
yeah, but sometimes when people are intimidated by what they don't understand they try to destroy it ya know?
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #10 on: May 09, 2013, 02:42:45 AM »
Don't listen to them, I know it's cliché, but don't, ya gotta fight then back. Yes fighting's not a good idea, but if you can't somehow stop the nuisance with a third party, you gotta stop it yourself. Ignore them, talk back, run, punch them if you have to, but again, ya gotta pick your battles wisely. No friend of mine will be told such a thing, alright? Don't be afraid nor scared, life is too short to take their sh**, defend yourself wisely and keep your pride, bro, love ya ;3
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #11 on: May 09, 2013, 02:44:59 AM »
We are...we are the victory! We are the strong, the shy, the bold, the kind. We are a fandom and proud of it!
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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #12 on: May 10, 2013, 12:56:29 AM »
stab them in the jugular with a freshly sliced orange peal

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #13 on: May 10, 2013, 01:47:21 AM »
Very quickly.
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Space is a place I can't wait to go to. All the time in reality. And yet I long for the end, not because I want it to end, but because I'm curious of how this world ends and where all these souls go to when they breath no more. But till then I'll be having the time of my life! :)

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Re: I feel very depressed :(
« Reply #14 on: May 13, 2013, 02:18:19 PM »
Whenever people get on you about something, it's usually because they're feeling kind of unsettled and unknown themselves. You know who you are and you're proud of it (well, you should be). Maybe they have some identity trouble themselves. I say this because I had that feeling for a while myself.
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