I've been meaning to tell my mum that I'm dating Sadie. But then she's going to presume that I'm gay and I don't want her to think that because I'm not sure if I am or not. Obviously, I like girls! I like their personality, their minds, and their bodies but I like guys too. But I don't know how much. I want to say I'm gay but I know it's not entirely true. But the other day when I mentioned pansexuality to my family, my mum was like "So that means you'll do anyone!?" Not directed towards me but to the actual sexuality. I just said, "Hehehe yes" because I was in front of my whole family. And my family aren't necessarily "homo friendly." Which really bothers me. Especially my sister! Okay, you have me, a flaming homosexual, and then my sister, a homophobic, straight girl. And she is always ALWAYS asking me if I'm gay and I keep telling her "no." One time, she made me promise that I would not date a girl. Obviously, I didn't take that to heart. Why would I? And she's always asking if I have a crush or a boyfriend and I say no but smile because I think of Sadie whenever someone asks me that. And then she teases me about it and makes me say something not gay (that's hard to do for me). And then she'll start picking on me for the way I dress and my hair and how I act. She's always trying to get me to do girly things with her and contrary to her belief, I hate being a girl. Why would I want to look more like one? I just feel so uncomfortable around her and my family. It's starting to drive me nuts. Yeah, I would tell them I was dating Sadie and that I was gay but I know they wouldn't react well. It would just give them something new to pick on me about. I'm like, alone in my family. Like, not alone but there's no one really like me. I'm the only gay one that I know of, actually. It's actually kind of stressful. I feel insecure when I go to family reunions and shit like that because I know I'm different from everyone else and it really ticks me off. The closest person like me is my lil' bro, Nick. But he still calls me gay and shit like that. I mean, my older sister taught him to call me ya' know, the curse word for lesbian. Really? I'm just unsure what to do anymore. I know if I tell my mum about Sadie, and how we're an "online" relationship, she's going to presume that Sadie's a pedophile! But I know she's not, OBVIOUSLY OMG. But my mum aLWAYS presumes that my friends are freaks and pedophiles. Really. I am sick of it. I'm afraid my mum would make me break up with her. (But I won't omg). OKAY, I guess I'm done. Thanks for reading!!!! <333