Relationship drama........

[Wolfgang]

Okay, as the title says I'm having relationship drama.

Today I was at a friends house and we were having a video game party with a couple of other friends and I'm about to go for a swim in his pool when my girlfriend's father calls me and tells me that something's up with her because she is getting off of her meds. I told him that I would call her and that was that and that I would spend some time with her next week. Then later ago this evening my girlfriends brother calls me and says she's upset and that I should call her. Well I sent her a text and she starts getting dramatic on me. I love her, I treat her like a goddess but the one thing that I HATE is stupid pointless drama. AND because that she acted up today I can't see her next week.

What do all of you think I should do, should I just ignore it and wait till it blows over or try to help?

[LyrilaFox]

what kind of drama?
that might help to clear it up for your desicion

[Wolfgang]

family drama.

[LyrilaFox]

hmm, that kinda clears it up, like what is she doing to the family/you?

[Wolfgang]

she's arguing with her father and her FATHER wants me to help her but she's getting dramatic about it and i really, and i mean REALLY don't want any part of it.

[LyrilaFox]

well if you dont want to you dont have to, its not really the path i would chose, i would try to get her to explain why shes doing it and maybe we can find a soloution from there

[Wolfgang]

yeah i hear you. It will blow over soon, this has happened before and she'll calm down.

[LyrilaFox]

okay so is that the thing you chose?

[Wolfgang]

yeah pretty much, I had some pretty bad drama in 2008/2009 and I'm not going down that road again.

[LyrilaFox]

okay, hopefully your dilemma gets better, have a nice day and may god bless you

[___]

C'mon dude. A relationship is a full-time deal, should've called her when you heard, or at least had a text convo with her to try and help her out.

Although I don't know how busy you were at the time, from what you were saying (Playing video games) it seemed like you had some time on your hands.

And anyways, you should be the slightest bit understanding that she was on meds (From what it seems like) so that would defiantly mess with her mood.

I'd be mad at you too if I were her.

What you should do is apologize, and try and ask her what's wrong. If you can, try and make her feel like she can get to you anytime if she needs it.

Me, I get "depressed" (Not sure if its clinical depression just yet, should get checked out) and I know that my bf tries to help me out of it, she may just need the same thing right now.