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Having relationship issues
« on: May 09, 2011, 05:17:13 PM »
Okay... here I go
To all who don't know me, my name is Shiro. I live in eugene oregon and ive been on here for quite a while. I'm a junior in high school and I am having a relationship issue...

There is a girl in my school one year younger than me to whom is very gorgeous, a beautiful personality. The only problem is that half of the school loves her as well. maybe just for how sexy she is, but still. I go to a very small school so its one of those cases where everyone has dated everyone pretty much. This girl is sadly also kind of a pushover when it comes to relationships and has admitted it many times. It seems anyone who wants to can push her into a relationship because she thinks of other people before herself. This has gotten her into a lot of drama and problems, and while she has been flirting with everyone and have had bad things happen to her this whole time, i just cannot find it in me to hold a grudge. I am so willing to stick out whatever flings she has with people. I can't stop thinking about her, even when she is going out with other people. Just so long as she is happy, I'm happy.

Am I just crazy? Am I just a sucker for this girl? Is this bad for me?
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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2011, 05:39:26 PM »
You should probably do small good deeds to her at a time. Do your best to spread kindness to everyone in school. Strive to earn a reputation of being the happy kind kid. Aim and try to figure out her likes and desires. Tell her how happy she makes you feel. When the reputation is built it would be easier to get to her.

Sound like your a pansexual as well. You get strange feelings for others and you get an odd feeling whenever they represent a change in emotion. There's no better feeling then knowing my mate is happy :D
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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #2 on: May 09, 2011, 08:08:07 PM »
You should probably do small good deeds to her at a time. Do your best to spread kindness to everyone in school. Strive to earn a reputation of being the happy kind kid. Aim and try to figure out her likes and desires. Tell her how happy she makes you feel. When the reputation is built it would be easier to get to her.

Sound like your a pansexual as well. You get strange feelings for others and you get an odd feeling whenever they represent a change in emotion. There's no better feeling then knowing my mate is happy :D

and dont let anyone hurt her. for any reason.
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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #3 on: May 09, 2011, 09:03:20 PM »
Good point Brendyn, just don't be too protective she'll see you as the demanding, controling, overprotective type and women typically don't find that attractive.

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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #4 on: May 10, 2011, 05:12:49 AM »
Good point Brendyn, just don't be too protective she'll see you as the demanding, controling, overprotective type and women typically don't find that attractive.
agreed, but also, you should respond in a more friendly way, more compassionate rather than romantic. its good to be protective, but its also good to give space not only to her but also to yourself
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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2011, 02:14:50 PM »
thanks guys (and thanks sis :3)
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Re: Having relationship issues
« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2011, 08:57:50 PM »
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