Welcome!
Always very cool to se a new Fur joining the fandom.
The party or fight thing reminds me of a dude from Wheel of Time...
"A girl or a fight, pouting lips or a flashing blade. Whichever dance you're dancing at the moment is always the most fun"
Anyhoo! Enjoy the forum-y goodness, Wanderer, I hope you have fun here =^-^=