me, i did that for a while...until i figured out that if i do it here and there long enough..that she will just get to tired to yell at me about it and let me do it...thats now i slowly got to dress how i want.
one day i just wore a collar...didnt say anything, just DID it..and she would tell me to take it off so i would..but she would see me wearing it again the next day. and id not wear it EVERY day, just randomly. and she eventualy got accostomed to it and didnt bother me.
THEN i started wearing other things like this, and did the same thing..the trick is to TRAIN your parents into it, wean them slowly into what you like.
