Urm.............

[FoXTAlL]

Hi, uhhhh I havn't been on in a looooooooooooooong time, but I recently reentered the fandom, and i need advice. I recently fell head over heels for my a friend of mine(hes a dude, i'm a dude) and i'm lost, confused, and i feel alone. When i told him he was like yeeeaa ok...... and said we would talk about it sometime. But I know I'm not Gay because I still love Women. I didn't know what to do? I need advice, and I've seen you all, as a caring bunch, and it took some courage share this. Thanks, and Merry Christmas,

               Rad

[Puncia]

How long has it been since you told your friend? If it's been a week or so, I'd give him some more time. If it's been months, then I'd perhaps try to lead a conversation towards it in a private and comfortable environment. And how is your relationship? Are you talking or hanging out?

Welcome back, by the way.

[Monster Mash]

You don't have to be gay to like dudes, there are bisexuals too ya know. Do you know his orientation and/or relationship status?

[FoXTAlL]

I told him about a week ago, I'm pretty sure he's straight, and I know he's single.

[WingedZephyr]

As much as it sucks, if he's not into men... there's not really a whole lot you can do. You could try talking to him about it, but if your feelings are not mutual, just gotta move on.

You might also want to consider how this might impact your friendship. I don't really know enough about your situation, but if your friend is made too uncomfortable to be around you, it could push you guys apart.

[Puncia]

I would at least give him a few weeks to think, not push him and leave him alone unless he wants to hang out, other than that I think Zephyr is right.