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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Zinc on October 11, 2009, 01:51:07 AM

Title: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 11, 2009, 01:51:07 AM
As I probally told ya'll, or not I can never remember, I've been a shutin for many years so I have very little human contact. With a shortage of expierience I thought to ask ya'lls' opionion. Any feedback to feedback is pretty much welcome.
The first question I had was is it strange for the girl to ask you to be her boyfriend?
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: iKero-chuâ„¢ on October 11, 2009, 01:55:21 AM
As I probally told ya'll, or not I can never remember, I've been a shutin for many years so I have very little human contact. With a shortage of expierience I thought to ask ya'lls' opionion. Any feedback to feedback is pretty much welcome.
The first question I had was is it strange for the girl to ask you to be her boyfriend?

Nopers, it's not.
:P
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 11, 2009, 02:01:27 AM
I always thoght the boy always laid on a whole lotta lame pickup lines. I guess she jumped on it seeing as how I'm to shy todo something like that


Post Merge: October 11, 2009, 02:25:29 AM
It seemed a little weird to ask this , but no one seems interested in the first one.
Have you'll ever met or known any black furries?
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: artimus on October 11, 2009, 02:48:23 AM
I'd like to report the awesome Jibba and Jakabee from 2 Sense.

Most notably, as the only two who provide contradictory talking points, but nonetheless. Yes, furries of every race, creed, and sexuality...and species imaginable exist.

If you mean personally, I don't myself.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on October 11, 2009, 03:32:45 AM
I've seen a few on the internets, but i dont know none in real life. I dont know no furries in general.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 11, 2009, 10:22:12 PM
I really don't know any myself, but I do like the art aspect and I do a little art myself. I just asked because they just seem so scarce. ^_^
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on October 11, 2009, 10:29:37 PM
well how can you tell if one is black or not if they're a furry?
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 11, 2009, 10:43:46 PM
I was talking about furries in general, not just fursuiters. Then again you have a point who can tell. :?
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Vee Katame: His Wolfy on October 11, 2009, 11:54:07 PM
Yes, it is normal for girls to ask boys to be their boyfriend.
I don't know any black furries personally, but there is at least one on this site. I know that from the 'What DO you look like in real life?!' thread.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 12, 2009, 12:23:17 AM
I might go check that thread out. Oh yeah... what if she asked me about the prom right after I agreed. Is that to forward. She even referred to it as a offer...ahh but I love her.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Vee Katame: His Wolfy on October 12, 2009, 12:31:12 AM
Not really. I mean, you agreed to be her boyfriend...girlfriends and boyfriends go to prom together. It may have been a really sudden/spur-of-the-moment kind of thing, but I don't think it was too forward since you had already agreed to be her boyfriend.:)
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 12, 2009, 12:44:20 AM
I guested the responsabilities came with the territory, but I not really the out~there kind of type. Something I just have to suck up I guest. :S
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on October 12, 2009, 01:03:32 AM
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ahh but I love her.
Hopefully that part wasn't serious, cus that sort of talk leads you straight down some bad alleys
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Vee Katame: His Wolfy on October 12, 2009, 01:15:01 AM
Asia is correct. No one should say that they love the person at the beginning of the relationship (unless they're referring to the friendly kind of love). I can understand strongly liking someone, I mean, why would you enter a relationship if you didn't like the person. lol.
Sorry if that sounds mean in any way. I'm just not one of those people that believes in 'love at first sight' or saying you love someone three days into the relationship. My mate and I probably started saying it after a month (which to most is probably early), but that is enough time (in my mind) for you to know that you love someone (plus, I had been friends with him for two and half years before we started dating). And by how you are talking, it sounds like she asked you fairly recently, so yeah.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: artimus on October 12, 2009, 03:44:53 AM
I believe in love at first sight. I've been with my chocolate cake for years and we're just as happy as ever!

But seriously, I must agree with Veesmith. Love is something that develops over time. I think that it starts out AS a crush then becomes love with the conflicts and agreements that follow courting or friendship. I also hope you didn't start the relationship out of boredom. That's...not a great idea, honestly.

Oh, except delicious pastries! They're exempt from any rules of love.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 12, 2009, 04:01:17 AM
Come on now my love for her is simply platonic. I think I spelled it right. I had 3 years to get to know her since the time I started highschool. She was the girl everybody made fun of, but I saw something more in her then what others still see.
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 14, 2009, 01:09:17 AM
Thanks everybody...*sniff*...*sobs*
*Buries head under paws and bites in deep*
what if someone blames you for  something that isn't your fault. I think it's not my fault. This person got into a violant arguement that they feel it's my fault that I didn't come to their side. They feel I sided against them because the other was helping me buy a PS3. How can she believe I would betray her trust for material possesions, my loyality runs much more deeper than that. Our relation is falling apart. How...   


Post Merge: October 14, 2009, 01:11:04 AM
can I feel better? :'(
Title: Re: The Boy Who Knew Not of Social Norms
Post by: Zinc on October 17, 2009, 03:46:54 PM
Thinks for not answering... I really didn't want to talk about it... really. ^_^
After it was posted it just seemed to personal. I think it's about time this thread faded.